My OH hasn't left me, or been abusive, or cheated or lied and actually everything is great!

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My OH is 8+4, laying next to me asleep and we are both happy and content!

Sorry but this relationship section of the forum is always sooooooooooooooooooooooo negative!

I know people don't come on here to boast about how happy they are and people are genuinely looking for help and advise. But it's always the same thing with almost the same answers. Men are useless, men don't do anything, you're right the man is wrong, he is abusive, however if you hit him then you're absolved of all responsibility. Ect.

People come to mumsnet because they are crying out for help, I understand that, really I do, and I'm not trying to be callus. Also Mumneters have always given great advise, but please let's have one topic that has positive out comes. Anyone celebrating their 10 / 20 / 30 year anniversary? Anyone travel half way around the globe to be with their soulmate?

Surely their still has to be some romance left in this world!

Oh, not sure if I count as I've only been married 4 years (though together for 6). We have 1 DD (2.7 yrs). Our relationship is terrific - yes we can wind each other up no end, but we adore each other. DH works long hours but still does a huge chunk of the housework, irons his own shirts, cooks, prefers to spend time with me over others (we see so little of each other during the week), did night time feeds in DD's early months (despite working long hours), still wakes up for DD if needed, spends most of his free weekend time with DD, is great in bed and loves going down on me. Hurrah for the good men!