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My boyfriend and i have split up

126 replies

fairyfly · 03/10/2005 20:24

If anyone needs some advice on totally messing up relationships please cat me. I am perfecting the art.

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fairyfly · 04/10/2005 22:02

I will look out for the interbred males buying meals for one.

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LadyFioOfTipton · 04/10/2005 22:06

why do you live in Margate?

bosscat · 04/10/2005 22:29

FF, think you are dead brave really. You are completely right about your kids. Once they start getting attached like that you have to protect them if your instinct tells you it isn't going to go anywhere. Dont call him. Let him come to you and if he doesn't you will move on and find someone who wants the same things you do and who WILL tuck your kids in at night because they deserve it. I threw my phone in the sea once to stop me calling someone I had broken up with. We're married now

fairyfly · 05/10/2005 07:30

I would love to throw it in the sea, or stamp on it, or wrap it round his head, even thought about leaving it at home. School would end up ringing or something ridiculous. Trying to stay away from any farcicle dramas for a few days.

It can test my self discipline which i don't have much of, very therepuetic and character building. One whole night and day. The fact he would walk away than commit speaks volumes to me and i don't actually feel that bad anymore. Just glad i know i found out now.

I feel really odd when i start offloading like this to mn. Quite like doing it though. It's just slightly insane.#

My saving grace i think it is that i don't start to describe what the sex was like or obsess about the vibrating rat im going to buy so i can wack off all day instead.

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ninah · 05/10/2005 07:41

god sorry ff

fairyfly · 05/10/2005 08:23

Thankyou Ninah

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HemlockLGJ · 05/10/2005 08:30

FF

I was thinking about you all day yesterday, stay strong.

much love

LGJ

TheRtHonBaronessEnidOBE · 05/10/2005 08:30

sorry to hear this ff x E

fairyfly · 05/10/2005 08:33

Thanks ljg you are sweet,lady pregnant enid what does one mean when one says x E

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TheRtHonBaronessEnidOBE · 05/10/2005 08:34

love, Enid

anorak · 05/10/2005 08:37

Hi Ms Fly. Hope you have a better day today.

Use all emotional excesses as artistic fuel.

fairyfly · 05/10/2005 08:41

It does anorak, really enjoyed it yesterday.

Oh what a shame enid i thought you were adding some important letters to the end of my name, about time i had some really.

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anorak · 05/10/2005 08:51

Have just emailed you FF. See you later, off to Toys R Us. Pray for me in case I am sucked into the Barbie aisle.

ninah · 05/10/2005 08:51

fwiw I really admire your strength of character. There really is no use chasing misery if you want different things.

HemlockLGJ · 05/10/2005 13:34

You popped into my head, so I just thought I would post and say stay strong.

glitterfairy · 05/10/2005 14:35

FF we need to go for a drink. How about two weeks can come out tuesday or wednesday? You can help me drown a man or two!

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HemlockLGJ · 05/10/2005 15:14

Good point Beety.

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HemlockLGJ · 05/10/2005 15:19

And lunch in Harvey Nichols the following day to alleviate the hangover.

But still trainfare is good.

LadyFioOfTipton · 05/10/2005 15:19

ing he will be ringing he desperate for her body tommorrow, i bet

fairyfly · 05/10/2005 16:59

Yep that would be good glitter, just let us know.

Can't get him out of my head today, even wrote out the text, this is tough.

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HemlockLGJ · 05/10/2005 17:00

Don't send the text

fairyfly · 05/10/2005 17:09

I've not. Pointless really.

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