have you been with your dp/h more than 20 years

[southeastastra]

i have, any comments so far

No comments, apart from it's bloody hard work .

I have, 20 years as of last February - married for 12 years this summer. I am 37y, met him when we were both 16y.

Me! We passed the 20 year mark this August.

what comments do you want?

Met at 18, married at 23 and celebrated 25 year anniversay in June.

Agree blody hard work but worth it

23 years this christmas

me twentyish earlier this year - still good
been up - been down
we spend a LOT of time together
worth it in the long run - but phew 20 years goes quick doesn't it?

30 years

met when I was 16, married at 23. celebrated 28th wedding anniversary a couple of months ago.

Why are you asking?

Met at 19/26 married 2 years later, 33 years ago.

yes, sometimes great, sometimes awful, mostly just rub along together-I am interested in other people's relationships and what keeps you together- I think I just have realistic expectations but have often wondered if I just have low expectations.

I was married for 27 years and now I'm awaiting my divorce. Smashing.

can;t believe how time flies

20 years on valentine's day.
married 12 years as well
2 dc before wedding, 1 after. dh insisted if i wanted another!

we first met in 1986, briefly, then remet in 88, i think,
but made it official 20 years ago

I was married for 33 years, now separated.

It does pass quickly, especially when you have children to focus on.

Just wish I hadn't put up with all the crap for so long though.

Yes-22 years to a truly wonderful man-widowed before that after 16 years and divorced before that after 3 pretty miserable years.
3rd time lucky for me :)

First 20 years were good - or so I thought. In the 21st he had an affair and the divorce came through just after our 23rd anniversary.

20 years isn't that long really. I met someone recently whose parents had been married for 70 years.

So I reckon I could still fit in another couple of 20-year marriages...

yes, 30 years here as well

yes, me too together 26 years now - it has always been good

25 years together, 23 of them married. Too long.

Just done 21 years, met at 19, married at 21 we're now both 42 so that's half our lives together, two sons, hard work in parts but a lot of fun along the way as well.

Meeeeeeeeeeeeee.

Been married for 24 years next June, and have been together in total just over 28. We met a couple of months before I was 17.

Yes been with him 23 years, married for 11.

He's like my right arm

have ALMOST got him trained up to my exacting standards....

Oh and we have two lovely lovely boys 13 and 11 and yes some of it has been hard but we love each other to bits.

We've been together about 24 years (we met as students so the details are a bit blurry). Now been married 19 years with three DCs. It's a partnership. We are in it together and I wouldnt have it any other way.

Met and started going out together at university. Together now for 22 years, married for 13.

It is hard work at times.His fuckwittery bothers me on occasion as does my fishwifery him, I'm sure.

But we've got this far without too much drama and have produced two gorgeous boys.

Been married 22 years, not particularly happily. Sitting it out until the kids are grown up I think.
He'd do it all over again, I wouldn't turn up if I'm honest.