have you been with your dp/h more than 20 years

[southeastastra]

i have, any comments so far

24 years here (and just booked a holiday to celebrate our 25th) :)

We met at age 11, engaged at 19, married at 20.

19 years here. Sorry for gatecrashing.

It's good and bad, but mostly good.

20 years almost exactly.

Married for 18 of them.

Thanks for starting this thread - I tend to count wedding anniversaries only these days, and would have missed this autumn's landmark!

Almost! Can't believe that I met him 20 years ago in December. Been married 17 1/2. Glad I saw this, we might actually remember and do something about it

28 years here; married for 26. Only 1 horrendous year in all that time and very happy now.

Unmarried since 1982. How long is that? I'm too old to do the maths!

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Been together 22 years and married for almost 11. Same as most people we've had our ups and downs but I'd do it all again. Like others I can't understand where the time's gone. I remember when we started dating at 18 and we're now both 40. It's gone by so quickly!!!

23 years together - married 17 (met v young)

Almost 28 years. Engaged at 18, married at age 20.

I did move out once, ater 7 years. We had counselling and I moved back. If I had my time over I would not marry someone so opposite to me in so many ways, (yes-opposites do attract but in the long term our intrinsic differences have caused a lot of friction and disappointment for both of us.)

Three fabulous daughters and DH is almost house trained, - he is basically a good solid man. I do wonder what will happen once the children are off our hands. I find it hard to imagine we can get the spark back but stranger things have happened. As it stands we may not survive me going through menopause - I just want to run away and be ALONE!

It is hard work at times.His fuckwittery bothers me on occasion as does my fishwifery him, I'm sure.

Haha, sounds like my marriage.Although I am sure there is more fuckwittery than fishwifery here.

We have been together just over 26 years, married for 25 in February 2011.

Married for 31 years in September and together for 6 years before that so 37 years in all but expecting decree absolute in the next fortnight :( !

Please read my thread ....After 37 years......

married 38 years.did marry young.just some times i need the patience of a saint.snoring his head off??

Together for 28 years, married for 25 1/2, he worships me as the goddess I am, what more can I say?

Twenty one years! My little joke is that you get less for a life sentence. Mostly pretty good, think we are both quite well "house trained" now so unless some kind of mid-life crisis rears its head I suppose we could be in this for the long haul! But I know that I could also be happy on my own or in another relationship and I am sure my partner could be too (I know he would be snapped up in seconds, he is very well house trained - no telephone numbers being given out, lol!)

28 years nearly, never married, we rub along...

Met at 18, married at 21, so 25 years this year..

Hard work but worth it. [hgrin]

married 17 years

together 26 years

a few "dry" years when the kids were young, things were a little shaky for a while (on my part, mainly)

we are very together now though, as the kids don't need us as much and have kinda "found" each other again

I hope things stay this good until we are in the Old Folks Home [hsmile]

24, coming up 25 this December. Mostly good, but seriously rocky this year......

26 happy years together, 22 years married next month.

39 years and he is almost trained. He is a lot more thoughtful and generous than he was.

together 24 years, married for 22.
He is great. Lovely, lovely man. I am lucky.