I'm about to explode. Going to dump all xp's belongings at his work in about 2 hours.
Kicked him out 3 months ago after discovery of ow at work who is also a family friend. Long story, dcs on both sides. X has been living in hotels and sleeping on the sofa since then. We talked about trying to work things out but he refuses to tell me the truth about the affair so it's a no go. I've bent over backwards to try and keep things fair and amicable. I want to move on. He says he can't find a flat. He hasn't even told his parents.
After another night on the sofa I've told him to get out today and I want no more contact. In the last couple of days I have found evidence that the affair did not end when he said it did. Today, I've found a 2nd phone in his suitcase. It is a Nokia 1650 which I believe is a cheap payg phone as opposed to being an old work one which is what he'll say if I confront him. I don't want to confront him. I just want him out, no contact at all.
Sooo... I'm going to load the rest of his belongings into my car including cricket bag and golf clubs and dump then in the reception of his workplace (a HUGE worldwide UK confectionary company). OW is a receptionist so it will be very uncomfortable for her too. Nobody at his work knows about their affair. Yet. He is terrified that it will become common knowledge.
Good idea?