It is her thing. She always does it.
Benefit of the doubt- peoplw in moyrning can feel sidelined by what other people think is kindness.
On BF issue. It would be in keeping if thete were discussions. They were always moaning hand wringing debating issues at table at BF. The endless Hellon baby issue, the Johnny (Rich) issue, the sausages, the food poisoning, the brand, the name and then all Kathy's assorted isdues that she liked to pop in to moan talk about .
Thing is though if you are going to kove from character driven to plot driven, you have to be able to actually write a plot!!!
All the plots bar one have been implausible, transparent and pointless. There was only 1 where we couldn't see how it ended when it started. Move- won't happen. Road- won't happen. HP- will die. Jill- will move back. Even the Carol plot - it will turn out to be assisted suicide. Grundy's - they won't get house back.
The only things I have been truly surprised by for years - paul dying and Matt leaving