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Handhold please - 28+6.

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NewYearsEveWedding · 10/09/2020 09:10

Previous history - DD born at 32 weeks in 2015 due to waters breaking. No cause found. Now healthy 5 year old.

Currently 28+6 with DS. Yesterday I went in to be monitored as baby had a quiet day. The monitor picked up tightenings in my stomach. Cervical length was measured again, and has dropped to 2cm, from 3.5cm 3 weeks ago. Suddenly told that this could be the start of things again. I'm sure these "tightenings" have been felt a couple of weeks ago even. I thought it was baby moving high up.

I live in the Channel Islands, so have been told to prepare for medical plane transfer to Southampton hospital. DH will have to stay here until we know what's going, looking after DD. The prospect of giving birth alone, and leaving my home, it's horrible.

I've just dropped DD at school and now need to start packing an emergency suitcase. I can't think straight, I'm so frightened.

OP posts:
FraterculaArctica · 09/10/2020 19:10

Don't panic! I'm sure it's scary but you have got to such a good gestation and so pleased for you that you are back on Guernsey and got some time at home. Do you have any signs of labour yet? Have they said what the plan is?

My 33+4 DS is now 11 months, I'm feeding him to sleep as I write and he is absolutely fine.

MasterOfCaffeine · 09/10/2020 19:16

Good luck op, 33 weeks is a good gestation ♥️

OverTheRainbow88 · 09/10/2020 19:27

Best of luck OP, you’ve got this!

mommybear1 · 09/10/2020 19:28

Thinking of you OP hope all goes well Thanks

SummerHouse · 09/10/2020 19:36

What a journey you have been on. It will all be worth it. Sending positive thoughts your way. Flowers

Monsterjam · 09/10/2020 19:40

Good luck thoughts are with you both x

Itsatoughgig · 09/10/2020 19:45

Thinking of you. 🤗 and 💐

Mumof3almost4 · 09/10/2020 19:53

Sending you lots of love and strength. Xx

rainbowninja · 09/10/2020 20:06

Thinking of you OP, just read your entire thread and then got to the end and found out your waters had broken! What a journey you have had, much love X

Babysharksmom · 09/10/2020 20:11

Thinking of you OP. My friend had twins at 28 weeks. Now currently healthy happy 5 year olds

Positive vibes to you xxxx

gettingupearlyzzzz · 09/10/2020 21:21

Good luck OP Thanks
And well done for getting to 33 weeks!
Just relax and let the doctors do their thing!

Take care xx

ShalomToYouJackie · 09/10/2020 21:44

Good luck OP! So sorry you are having to do it alone ♥️ well done for getting so far that's amazing xx

NewYearsEveWedding · 10/10/2020 03:25

He’s here safely, and I am okay. He arrived at 10:45pm.

I will update once his big sister knows all about it.

Thank you for all your kind messages.

OP posts:
serialreturner · 10/10/2020 04:39

@NewYearsEveWedding

Wow!

What a rollercoaster - but you got there!

Congratulations Flowers and nothing but admiration for you.

I can't wait for you to get back to DD and DH and hit the sofa.

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leafeater · 10/10/2020 04:51

Welcome to the world, little NYE.

Well done and hope everything goes well over the next few days Thanks

rainbowninja · 10/10/2020 05:18

Congratulations! Well done you! Xx

Jfw82 · 10/10/2020 06:39

Congratulations!

rainbowstardrops · 10/10/2020 07:55

Congratulations! Hope all is well Thanks

ShalomToYouJackie · 10/10/2020 07:57

Congratulations, such lovely news xx

Beautyoftheirdreams · 10/10/2020 08:06

Wow, my heart was in my mouth reading the thread. I'm so glad you made it back home before he arrived. Congratulations on your little boy. Mine was born at 31weeks and we only had to stay a few weeks so hopefully you will all be home soon xx

zebrapig · 10/10/2020 08:11

Congratulations on the arrival of DS. Just read your whole thread with my heart in my mouth. 33 weeks is a good gestation, my own 33 weeker is laid next to me and is nearly 3 now.

gettingupearlyzzzz · 10/10/2020 08:24

Huge congratulations OP!
Fantastic news ThanksThanksThanks

FraterculaArctica · 10/10/2020 08:24

Congratulations on your lovely new DS!! Hope you are both well x

PinkPlantCase · 10/10/2020 09:15

Well done and congratulations OP 🥳 You’ve been through so much to get to this point, wishing you and your family all the very best. Hope it won’t be long until you can all have a big family hug x

Thermo · 10/10/2020 09:17

Congratulations OP! 33 weeks is blimmin brilliant considering the worries when you first started your posts. I hope it’s not to long of a stay and that you’re all okay!