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Home Medical termination

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Mumto3ggb · 25/11/2021 02:56

Hi please don’t judge. I had my first telephone consultation today she just asked me some medical questions & my reason for wanting a termination, I have my next telephone appointment Friday with a nurse and then she said my pills will be shipped same day. I’m about 5/6 weeks & im absolutely terrified I had a termination about 8/9 years ago and it was a horrible experience as some tissue got stuck in my cervix and I just kept bleeding heavily and passing clots the size of oranges back then I was around 8/9 weeks pregnant. Has anyone had a bad experience but been ok 2nd time I suffer terrible with anxiety so my mind is telling me the worst 😢

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Relaxing2 · 01/12/2021 14:02

Aww I will do hun and you two when are you due to take your second lot?

Mumto3ggb · 01/12/2021 14:26

I’m due to take them tomorrow will be doing it once I’ve got my kids to bed x

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Relaxing2 · 02/12/2021 07:35

@Mumto3ggb how are you hun? X

Mumto3ggb · 02/12/2021 10:16

@Relaxing2 I chickened out yesterday so I’ve got to take it today but I’ve woke up with the worst heartburn my throat is literally on fire.
How are you have you had your appointment x

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Relaxing2 · 02/12/2021 10:44

Hi I've had my appointment and taken my first tab also had the implant fitted too

Mumto3ggb · 02/12/2021 11:04

Oh wow I wish I was as brave as you just to take it I know 100% it’s what I want I’m just letting my anxiety get the better of me. How are you feeling x

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Relaxing2 · 02/12/2021 11:50

I had a massive panic attack my legs went like jelly but the nurse was so lovely I even sat down and stayed there abit

Mumto3ggb · 02/12/2021 12:48

That’s what I’m worrying of too. Have you to do the rest tomorrow at home x

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Relaxing2 · 02/12/2021 14:50

No Saturday hun have taken yours yet?

Mumto3ggb · 02/12/2021 15:27

No not yet I feel a right wimp but the fear is taking over x
How are you feeling now

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Relaxing2 · 02/12/2021 15:31

Absolutely fine you wouldn't even no I've taken it x

Mumto3ggb · 02/12/2021 20:22

@Relaxing2 I finally plucked up the courage and took it at half 6 x

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Relaxing2 · 03/12/2021 07:52

How are you feeling? @Mumto3ggb

Mumto3ggb · 03/12/2021 11:02

@Relaxing2 scared I didn’t have the best night stomach cramps and heartburn

How are you x

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Relaxing2 · 03/12/2021 11:50

Yeah I've had stomach cramps hun are you due to take your second lot today or tomorrow? X

Mumto3ggb · 03/12/2021 12:04

It’s awful isn’t it I can’t wait for all this to be over & today as my partner is off today and back in work tomorrow so want to do it while he’s here. Yours is tomorrow isn’t it? X

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Relaxing2 · 03/12/2021 12:21

It is yea hun what time you doing yours today then? And keep my updated hun hand hold here x

KateInHappyland · 03/12/2021 12:31

In some places you can ask to take the second pill at the hospital, they will check everything you pass to ensure it’s all out - plus they have better pain relief and will make sure you’re safe and comfortable.
Bring it up at your second phone appointment. Absolutely no judgement, hope you’re doing OK. Flowers

KateInHappyland · 03/12/2021 12:33

Sorry, just saw your later posts. I hope you’re doing well, it will all be over soon!

Mumto3ggb · 03/12/2021 12:37

@Relaxing2 about 4 I honestly feel so sick 😷 I will thank you means a lot

@KateInHappyland thank you 😊

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Relaxing2 · 03/12/2021 12:38

I'm feeling worried and sick myself hun I'm getting so scared now x

Mumto3ggb · 03/12/2021 13:20

@Relaxing2 it’s honestly the worst feeling but I’ll be here for you tomorrow if you need to talk x

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Relaxing2 · 03/12/2021 13:22

Thank you and same for you later xx

Mumto3ggb · 03/12/2021 13:23

Thank you 😊 x

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Relaxing2 · 03/12/2021 13:26

I'll pop on about half 4 see how your doing x