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The odds ot two false + tests is a gazillion to one presumably which means one thing and quite frankly I need support NOW NOW NOW

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Piffle · 10/01/2008 14:21

Yes me
That bint who spent 3 YRS on the ttc boards to get her deliciuos 9 mth old ds2.
current line up
ds1 13yrs
dd 5
ds2 9 mths

Had unprotected SEX ONCE on day after AF finished.
Infact have had sex once in the last 8 weeks...
I'm NEVER EVER doing it again
FFS DP is on waiting list for vasectomy.
How the fuck will I cope, I leave long age gaps for a reason...
Shit shit shit.
am being a wimp as house is big, car can get an extra seat, ds1 and dd and even ds2 are angels.

But DP works long hours gone at 6am home at 8pm
Not sure I can do it on my own.
What if i have not finished bf ds2 by then?

SHIT

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ScoobyDoo · 10/01/2008 16:40

WOW huge congratulations piffle hope everything works out you will be fine i am sure dc 4 will slot in with your lot

Ds is a september baby & i agree they are fab

Baffy · 10/01/2008 16:41

congratulations!

like you say, what will be will be.

and you sound like you'll cope brilliantly

Saturn74 · 10/01/2008 16:47

Congratulations, Piffle!

TheDuchessOfNorksBride · 10/01/2008 16:49

Piffle, in my book those are big age gaps!

You're good at this stuff. You have the space. It'll be fine. Congratulations!

Pollyanna · 10/01/2008 19:08

my 4th child was a day 6 conception! Congratulations - it is fab having 4 children!

(not that you want to know this, but my 5th child is a day 18 conception - so get that snip booked )

CantSleepWontSleep · 10/01/2008 19:15

Congratulations! Guess this last one was determined to sneak in before the snip!

Piffle · 10/01/2008 19:20

looks like not to be... Bleeding a lot now. Still testing + but not optimistic. Will toddle off to doctors tomorrow . Big sad shame, I had gotten used to the idea. Dp was happy and just laughed when he heard about the + test earlier. He is being lovely just now too. God life sucks sometimes...

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lulumama · 10/01/2008 19:22

oh dear

what a rollercoaster

this may not be the end, you will still get a BFP for a while , even if this is a miscarriage....

are you having any pain?

againagainTigerFeet · 10/01/2008 19:26

Oh Piffle

Keeping my fingers crossed for you x

Wallace · 10/01/2008 19:28

Fingers crossed xx

Piffle · 10/01/2008 19:29

not pain as such feels heavy much like a bad period would. I never get period pain but I guess it feels like this. I'm ok I'm very philosophical about such things... But even so.

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lulumama · 10/01/2008 19:30

of course.

you are going to the docs?

belgo · 10/01/2008 19:30

so sorry piffle - you sounded so excited earlier on the thread.

ladytophamhatt · 10/01/2008 20:08

Oh no...piffle.

My heart sank when I read your lastest posts.

Buda · 10/01/2008 20:09

Oh Piffle. I came on to check out your DH's reaction to your news. Fingers crossed. It may be OK.

TheIceQueen · 10/01/2008 20:17

oh no

NAB3wishesfor2008 · 10/01/2008 20:21

Everything crossed for you.

PellMell · 10/01/2008 20:28

well I am scared now.
firstly I hope it's congratulations for you...
but on a selfish note I posted recently asking if it was possible to conceive the day after af finished?
I guess from your op the answer is most definately YES!
I hope you have a happy outcome.

I will return to my thread to update.

dejags · 10/01/2008 20:34

Poor you Piffle (I mean about the bleeding)

I do hope that everything is ok.

I too thought I was pregnant this week. I was initially absolutely horrified but when my period came (over 10 days late) I was very surprised to find myself quite disappointed.

Let us know how you get on.

SorenLorensen · 10/01/2008 21:54

Oh Piffle Take care x

babylove21 · 10/01/2008 23:19

Piffle - Congrats !!!!!!! I'm on #3 with a 17 year age gap and equally terrified but ever so excited .
Babies can only ever bring happiness in the end

Aitch · 10/01/2008 23:45

pif, i hope everything's okay...take care.

WendyWeber · 11/01/2008 00:04

Awwww, piff

Missed this earlier, have read whole thread getting so excited for you and now just feel sad.

Look after yourself.

XXX

VeniVidiVickiQV · 11/01/2008 00:11

oh piff - just seen this [asd]

VeniVidiVickiQV · 11/01/2008 00:12

erm...sorry that should have been a