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Lissie - Ectopic Pregnancy

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lissielou · 08/02/2007 18:38

Good Evening - I'm Phil, lissielou's husband, following the scan today - Lisa was rushed to hospital, diagnosed with a Ectopic Pregnancy, I have just spoke to the hospital and she is still asleep following the procedure, however as the scan was not conclusive I don't know the extent of the damage as the Dr proposed one of four procedures laparoscopy/laparotomy/salpingectomy or oophotectomy dependent on the attachment of the baby (which was progressing well)the procedures are worse as the list continues. Following a conversation with the nurse she was unable to tell me which procedure they have operated on Lisa.
The last thing she said before I was told to go, was to send this message to her friends on mumsnet.

Both her boys (Noah and me) are desperatly missing there mom and bestfriend

Thanks

Phil

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Heavenis · 09/02/2007 08:13

I'm so sorry for you both. Send her all our love. Take care of yourselves.

WinniethePooh · 09/02/2007 08:36

HI there,

Thank you Phil for posting. So Sorry to hear this news.

Please tell LIssie that we are all thinking of her and sending our best wishes.

firststar · 09/02/2007 09:36

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Sneaks · 09/02/2007 09:56

I just found this I am so very sorry for your loss Having been through an ectopic myself I know how hard it is . . I hope you stay strong through this tough time.

XXXX

Taichimum · 09/02/2007 10:06

So sorry Lissielou. Feel so sad for you and your family. Look after each other. Big hugs.

Mumpbump · 09/02/2007 10:12

Just found this thread. So, so sorry to hear the news. My thoughts are with you all at this difficult time. I hope that Lissie makes a good recovery from the operation and is able to come home soon.

StrangeTown · 09/02/2007 10:18

Lissie and Phil - so, so sorry to hear this news, sending you my very best wishes. So sorry for your loss x

MrsMills · 09/02/2007 10:21

What sad news, thinking of you all.

geordiemacminx · 09/02/2007 10:29

Thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time.

PinkElephant · 09/02/2007 11:01

Liisielou - I went through this 6wks ago and my thoughts are with you. I know its too soon, but if you feel you have moved on from this thread there are some of us who have recently had the same experience as you over on the conception link under TTC after ectopic - not that we are even TTC just yet, we're just all on the emotional rollercoaster together.

AnguaVonUberwald · 09/02/2007 11:11

Lissie

All my sympathy and best wishes are with you. Its a horrible time and I hope you start to feel better soon.

Love

Angua

Mumpbump · 09/02/2007 11:26

Phil - I would like to send Lisa some flowers on behalf of us all. If you have five minutes to spare (and I appreciate that you are probably very busy at the moment), would you let me have your address? You can email me at helena_biggs at hotmail dot com.

Thanks

jabberwocky · 09/02/2007 11:29

I am so, so sorry to hear this. Thank you, Phil, for taking the time to post.

Lissie, you are in my thoughts. Wishing you the best for a speedy recovery.

littlefrog · 09/02/2007 11:45

so sorry to hear this. thinking of you all.
littlefrog

lulumama · 09/02/2007 12:25

mumpbump..lovely idea, i emailed last night, but only have lissie;s addy, so wasn;t sure if phil would pick it up...

Lullabyloo · 09/02/2007 12:37

me too...was wondering if we could guess which hosp lissie might be at?

Anisse · 09/02/2007 12:46

Dear Phil and lissielou,

So sorry to hear what you have been going through.
I do hope she recovers well and knows that we are all thinking of her.

When lissielou is well enough to come back online she has SO many friends here waiting to help mend her broken heart.

She is lucky that she has you boys to care for her.

Love Anisse x

whoopswithminiwhoopstinybump · 09/02/2007 14:06

Mumpbump - I was thinking the same I would like to contribute or organise it if anyone knows where she is

MrsBee · 09/02/2007 14:34

LissieLou and Phil, so sorry to hear your sad news Really hope Lisa has a quick recovery and look forward to seeing her back here on Mumsnet ASAP for moral support and anything else she needs. Best wishes. Mrs Bee

plummymummy · 09/02/2007 14:56

Nice gesture mumpbump - would like to contribute some money towards flowers if you get address (I could send a cheque to you).

pinkranger · 09/02/2007 15:01

lissie - so sorry for you

Take care
xx

SexyMadScientist · 09/02/2007 16:04

Lissie - I have to say that despite the bleeding etc. I thought this one was looking better for you..

So sad. Hope you are feeling better (phiscally & emotionally) soon.

d4phne · 09/02/2007 17:48

Dear Lissielou and Phil,
I am so terribly sorry for what you have to go through. There is nothing else to say. Muc strength to you both.

gothicmama · 09/02/2007 19:31

I can guess which hospital she would be in, will Lissie still be there tho

Lullabyloo · 09/02/2007 20:27

i dont know gothicmama-tried to cat you earlier..thought you might have lissie's address