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[XxXKatXxX]

Hi, i read about this site in a magazine and am expecting, im really young and worried hoping to talk to someone that can ease my worries?
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yeah, its a boy! R u going to find out?x

Hahaha! wow! i already know! mines a little boy too!

Wow, cool! Have u decided any names yet?x

Well sort of but not really! i really love the name Kole or Daniel but bf isnt as keen he likes william or ben! so hopefully we'll pick one of the names that each of us like and then one can be the name and the other middle name! but its just deciding which is his first name!
have you thought of any yet?
How old are you?
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Kole is nice! We both love Kai, I like rio 2 but boyfriend doesn't! Prob gonna call him Kai tho!
I'm 20. x

Aw i like rio too but then you can think of so many names and yet when hes born he might have a totally different character to a kai or kole or rio etc and might decide on something totally different!

Yeah i no what u mean! Thats what my mum has said, wait till he's born & then u'll no what name suits him! There r so many boys names I like tho! x

I know! you look at a book of baby names and irte a few down and think 'oh theres not many' then look down when you've finished and theres about 300!!and you just think 'if onlym we could fit just a couple of hundred into one name wouldnt that be perfect?'
haha! How has your pregnancy been so far?
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Yeah, ha!ha!
Its been really good so far thanks. Felt a lil bit sick for 1st 3 months, but since then its all been great! Gettin a bit uncomfortable at nite now tho.
Hows it been 4 u? x

Its been pretty good other then the mood swings which are pretty horrendous! yea night times arent good though, lots of sleepless nights either too hot or cold or cramp im my lgs during the night but my backs been really bad too otherwise yea its been all good! its such an experience before you fall pregnant you can only try and imagine how it feels but when you are its so different almost indescriable!

Yeah I agree,
I used2 get leg cramps nearly every nite! Drink tonic water b4 u go 2 bed! I hate the taste of it but does seem 2 work!
Anyway, I've gotta go now, I'm meant 2 be packin, I'm movin house on thur! I've still got loads 2 do! ah!
I'm sure I'll chat 2 u later, there is also a 'due in october' thread,where u can chat 2 other people havin babies in oct, every1 is really nice on there!(I'm on there 2!)
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Hiya Kat!
I was 16 when I got pg the first time. You've got great support around so you'll be fine. Can't imagine how hard it would be if you did'nt. I was lucky & had support to.
I'm now 31 & my ds1 (aged 14) loves having a younger mum
Good luck, all the best xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

eep! good luck with the moving!

And HK thanks yea got great support and couldnt ask for anymore been a long ride for the family but pulled through its beem amazing xxxxxx

You'll do great chick. Being young does'nt make you fall into the crappy sterotypical bracket. In the 14 years since I had my eldest, can't believe times have'nt changed. People still give me funny looks when I say how old I was when I had him lol.

Another plus about being a teen mum, you should get your figure back quickly Mind you, I gave birth to my 3rd 3 weeks ago & I'm back into 8-10 jeans
Take care hun xx

Yea i noticed that,if you tell anyone your pregnant they automatically chuck you into that 'useless slag young mum who doesnt know what shes doing' and its horrible!lol i havnt got the best of figures just very big boobs that at the minute i hate with a vengence really sore and achy bloody horrible!after hes born hoping to try and lose as much weight as possible!
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Lol you wait until your milk comes in. They get huge!!!!
Try to breast feed (if you can) not only is it great for baby but gets your figure back, even if you only manage a couple weeks.

im an E at the moment!...yeaeveryone keeps saying that...is it at all painful? or uncomfy?
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Personally mine hurt worse right at the beginning of pregnancy. 1st 12 weeks I was in pain. They get swollen but just feel achy. If your breast feeding & you miss a feed, then they can get engorged & sore. Hot bath always helped me. Definitely invest in some great fitting bras.

Mines wernt bad for the first couple of months and after about 4 months its got bad and still is

Hows your 3 weeks old little one?
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She's great. Little madam wasn't due until Sept 14th!! She was born 7.5weeks early on 25th July weighing 3lb 12ozs. She's now at least 5lb lol. All she does is eat bless her.

I also found sleeping in a sports bra helped. Could'nt stand them not supported at night because they killed the next morning.

Aww! sept 14th is my mums birthday lol!
wow thats really early!
do you think cause im young that there will be any complications with the labour?

hi im 21 had my 2nd child a boy, 5 weeks ago, and had my daughter when i was 19.

love being a young mum, i was worried about having my daughter so young, but once she came, everything fell into place and wasnt hard at all!

i didnt have any support from my family, but my partner and his family have bin there for me so made up for my family.

with our son, doesnt feel like we had a baby few weeks ago, it seems like he's bin with us foreva!!

Yep she was in hurry lol.
No should'nt be any problems because of your age. Actually that was my best labour, all natural.

Pretty- I agree, feels like our little girl's beem here longer than 3 weeks lol.

Hi Kat welcome to mn

I was 19 when i fell pg with my 1st, i was scared & wondering how i was going to cope.
It;s a fantastic part of your life & it will change you forver, yes there are times when it's hard & you just want to sleep but you know you can;t because you have a little bubba depending on you, but it's also the most rewarding thing in life.

I am now 24 & have my son who is 4 & my daughter who is 7 months, it's hard at times but i love them to bits.

You will be fine, your labour will be scary to sit & think about now but your baby has to come out & once he pops out you will totally forget about the pain, with my son i had every pain relief going & i did not really feel much pain after i had the epidural but with my daughter her labour was to fast & i had no time for an epidural, yes the pain in intense & constant BUT once she poped out on the 3rd push i had forgotten all about it & was totally overwhelmed to see her.

Goodluck, relax & make the most of your quiet nights xx

Yea people keep on saying that you'll totally forget all the pain once they're born! and yea my family have been really supportive except my aunt and uncle..very against it due to my age but hoping they'll change how they feel once hes born!
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