I know, not enough clues in the OP!
Just shows a lack of sense of humour that some people suffer from....
(whenever i've been caught out, i always come back and or laugh, etc.)
OK, we have a bloke who babysits for us, he's 16 (maybe 17 now) and is fab with the boys. Doesn't get flustered when they wake up or cry. He sits every Tues when i go to orchestra and then any other time we need him.
He's asked if he can bring a friend from school to babysitting tonight.
Previously we allowed a girl who babysat to bring her (girl) friend with her, only happened once.
He doesn't say girl or boy (goes to a boys only grammar though, so must be a boy).
He's what i would gently call a bit of a geek, not a cool dude sort of guy, so i can't see that he would bring round a lout.
But DH said NO. Just like that, no discussion.
when i asked why and he didn't want to say, he eventually said he's read too much about people whose DCs have been abused by people the parents have let into their house without due care
haven't replied to sitter yet.
WWYD?