Is the Christian God's love unconditional?

[Woolmark]

Ok, some questions which have been playing on my mind, I am genuinely interested.

Surely his love is on the condition that you are a) a Christian and b) follow his rules?

Also, if God loves everyone as much as he does, why can't he save everyone by simply appearing to them? If I could save my children by doing this then I would in an instant, rather than turning up at the end and destroying the ones who weren't Christian.

Ah.

Back: No I didn't mean you.
I can easily see how you can have specific lack of belief in a defined -although not very well- notion of God however I think you are giving absolute certainty a larger role in belief than it actually has. I believe my oven will work when I turn it on but I cannot be 100% certain for the same reasons that you describe.