Expats DD is very very poorly....text update sent from GiraffescantDance asking to let you know

[psychomum5]

I quote - 'Not good. Don't know if she'll make it TBH'.

this text was sent to giraffes and then forwarded to me asking to update at 10.42. Sorry for not coming sooner....been trying to uplaod the PC!! (and remember my log-in!).

please pray, send vibes, light candles.

Not a power struggle at all, I just want to know what to do with the money.

I have donated to the antlx account (PayPal says is going to Sue St George)? Hope that this money will also get to expat and family?

Update as and when you can. For now eat sleep and maybe watch some trashy tv.

Send it to Giraffes?

And cuddle those you love, I bet you need to :(

No problem

both accounts are for Aillidh

confusion sorted out

to all

I wasnt expecting as much sent to me as has been , i thought just a wee bit for food, as I am quite skint (I work as a nanny...not great pay!) but been lots more. I had previously been getting money from a fund set up ages ago for them for stuff too. all of it is for same thing.

Pls can someone PM me the PayPal details too

Could some of the money be put to a special trip for her siblings over the summer holidays? Tickets to something that they would love?

And can someone send me the PayPal details?

see it as a very basic and minimum indicator of all the good wishes that are out there for Ailidh

Please use it to cover your expenses too,Giraffes.

(sorry what I meant is for everyone who has sent money so far - I haven't - there are another 50 lurking and praying)

Like someone else said - you're welcome to use what I sent for gin and fags if that's what will make things even a tiny bit easier. Your unfailing support and loyalty must be vital to Expat and her family.

yes in discussions with exapt over summer camps for siblings. and activities for them :)

Please no one fight or get upset. Please. It is all for the same purpose.

I don't think it's right for us to start saying what should be done with the money in any way, however kindly meant. It's a freely given gift and must be used by the family, and their supporters such as giraffes as they feel best.

giraffes I don't think anyone is getting upset :)

You are amazing to give up so much of your time to help, just amazing. Hope you get some rest now.

I think there was just a mini panic that money would go into the ether Giraffes, that's all :)

I'd also be happy to make a donation - if someone could update with the best paypal address to use that would be great

I Have a contact at m&s head office who I have already contacted, I think she's on holiday until Tuesday though but I'm trying another avenue

Love, light and positive thoughts for Aillidh xxx

Phew glad Paypal sorted!

Giraffes sweetheart, please take care of you. I know you're in the eye of the storm I'm worrying about you too.

Big love xx

(tis Pinot here under a namechange)

Adding my thoughts / prayers / good karma or whatever you want to call it for Expats daughter. Fight on little one.
Huge hug for Expat too.

I just didnt want 6500 colouring books that is why I said food vouchers, cos that is what I buy them/they buy. cos lets face it canteen food is rank.

i have donated as well, i am sure it will be spent however expat sees fit and what she decides is fine by me, if it can help in any tiny way then that is only a good thing.

Yes :) keep bringing in the good stuff. You sAid expats not eating well and I bet you're not either. aid expata

Can I have the Paypal, please? And I'll state now I don't care what it gets spent on as long as it's one less thing for them to worry about.

Hang on in there, little one. It will get better soon.