Urgent advice needed ASAP!!

[pedilia]

My ex took my 6 year old DS for the weekend on Saturday, he was due to bring him back yesterday evening but did not show up.
He is not anserwing the phone and has not contacted me at all, this is a man who I do not trust and I am worried now.

What do I do? I don't even have his full address as the court deemed it not necessary for me to know!!!

Help

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thought it was tuesday today....

We have 6 pages of bumping...please just let us know if things are ok Pedilia. Nothing else will be said - at least not by me

Oh well.........

Have been following this but not posted yet.

Don't think she is going to return to tell us what happened

She was on here last night as well.

Yes I saw that but she went quiet as soon as you mentioned this thread iirc?

She obviously doesn't want to talk about it anymore.

It is frustrating. We had a similar situation with In Shock and Awe when we all joined in and cared a lot and then we don't get to hear what happened.

Maybe it is sensitive ie something legal means she can't discuss it. Maybe someone IRL knows her name on here, etc etc.

Confusing but maybe we need to leave it now.

i agree if he is not 2 be trusted n u r worried then u shud fone the police. don't want 2 prob but how is he not 2 be trusted, in wat way, do u think your child is in danger? then don't hesitate n call police

Hope everything ok. sounds like u need 2 go speak 2 a solitor as soon as pos. wen u get ds bk. he shudn't b allowed 2 do this 2 u!

can someone translate?

Thank you JATSOITS.

I hope she has everything under control, it is about her after all, not us and our need for reassurance.

From her post last night I think she sounded Ok so presumably if she needed our help further she would come and ask us.

I think we should respectfully drop it...anyone else?

I agree.

Pedilia - hope you're ok. Just tell everyone not to worry even if you can't say anything else or don't want to.

Bitcat - I'm sure you mean well but some people find it hard to understand 'text speak'. It might be better to type things out in normal English - I know it's tricky as a busy mum but it does help ease communication on here....hope you don't mind me saying this hun.

Nicely put mnpkf, sorry if I was a bit rude.

I am typing with one finger so things get a bit, um, paraphrased

I couldn't resist one sarcastic word in there though could I....

No problem i don't mind i am new to this. Always using text speak sometimes don't even know when i'm doing it. I keep trying to do it at work and then remember i am not texting. Sorry if i confused anyone glad of a little advice. Hope everyone ok and feeling fine this morning. Thanks for advice!

Sorry Bitcat and welcome! Just wait until you've been on here a while and start using Mumsnet style abbreviations in real life too - it gets scary when you start saying 'my ds was saying....' and then realise no-one in real life understands what a ds is!