When I was very young my mum passed away and I’m also not close to my dad. So when I found out I was pregnant I asked my aunt and uncle if they would be grandparents.
For a very long time I dreaded the extra loss I was about to feel with not having my mum with me to share this with however my aunt/uncle have been more then amazing to me and my girls and they love them so so much. And I know my mum would have been so happy if she could see or know the love they have for them.
So I’ll get to the question 🤦♀️ The thought has come to me that one day the girls may ask me why they aren't my parents. Has anyone got any advice. I would never want them to think that I’ve lied or tricked them. I’m probably overthinking the entire thing!