Police and social services

[Rosiebennett]

Can anyone help so last night we went to a firework display with friends and there kids had some food and drinks great night came home got baby to sleep I came upstairs and as my partner was trying to get into his wardrobe he’s trapped my foot in the door as it is right next to the door to the bedroom total accident but I screamed out in pain and my toe was cut and extremely sore anyways ten minutes later a police car is outside my house and someone had reported screaming from my house I was in absolute shock I’ve asked the neighbours all deny calling the police so I can only presume a passer by has presumed something bad had happend ! I explained this to the police while the interrogated me it was clear to see what had happened to my toe ! They said they where happy and left but I’m terrified they will envolve social services thinking there has been some domestic that I’m just not confessing too which honestly was not the case am I being dramatic in thinking this ? My partner was quite verbal to the officers as they woke our baby it’s really stressed me out can anyone help should I be worrying ?or am I just an over dramatic mum that’s watched too many tiktoks I’m kind of laughing about the fact it’s all over a trapped toe but at the same time I need to no if even though all was fine they don’t just report any old thing even if they said they where happy with the situation many thanks and sorry if I sound crazy x

I’m not stupid I no all this if u read my comments you would no I would of done the same if it was someone else but this was not my question end of conversation I wish I could delete this thread

If I called the police on a neighbour because I was worried, I wouldn’t admit it to them in case it put them at risk. As it happens, this was a case of a painful toe injury but whoever reported it didn’t know this. So, don’t assume it wasn’t a neighbour.

Anyway, it will likely have been passed on and screened. They may triage it and decide you don’t need a call or a visit. It’s impossible to say. Try not to panic and stay calm - mainly advice for your partner really.

hope your toe feels better. They can be surprisingly painful! Yours does look sore!

There is nothing to worry about.
I hope you get some SS involvement to check you and your DC are safe and not vulnerable.
That's all they will be doing.

Your real problem is a partner who is so aggressive he can't allow the police to do their jobs.

I've got ADHD and I would probably swear in front of the police (not at them) in fact I'm sure I would because I have a real potty mouth. I'm not a fan of the police in general, but they are doing a very difficult job and most of them are ok and not trying to make life harder of themselves or others.

However I have never sworn to someone in an aggressive manner. I'm not out of control or threatening. If he is that's a problem.