OMG !!! Guess what I've just found!!!???

[Leigh1980]

I've name changed due to my partner knowing my username hee hee!!

I've just found a very dainty petit diamond ring on the bedside table (his side). We only have one. This also holds my make up and bits 'n bobs.

We've only been together and living together for four months but we both know we ate meant for each other.

What do I do? Do I ask him about it? Wait for him to bring it up? It's basically sitting on top behind my little clock. Do you think it's meant for me? I've no idea when he could have purchased it either. So confused but also so excited. I'm to nervous to bring it up, but maybe he is nervous too and hoping I'd see it and bring it up myself. Aaaahhhh!!! Do you think it's an engagement ring!? We're both so in love with each other!!

Need your wisdom and experience :-)9

No box? Partially hidden? Near the bed??? Hmmm. Fingers crossed for you OP

It wasn't hidden though. Just on the side.

It doesn't sound like a typical engagement ring and it lacks a box. It's not been hidden carefully. I wouldn't get your hopes up OP, I think it's unlikely to be a proposal for you.

I hope it's a proposal OP :)

So ask him already!!!

Ask him dammit!

And bollocks to the naysayers. I was engaged to DH within 3 months and he told me he had been holding off for 'ages' because he thought I'd think it was too soon. We planned our wedding on our second date. Been together 15 years now.

Don't get your hopes up OP, surprise engagements don't usually start with an unboxed ring left on the bedside table.

Hope I'm wrong.

I hope it's good news...

Maybe not in a box cos it's a family heirloom?

I'm more concerned about why he cries so much

'he cries all the time'... Well that's rather odd. What does he cry about? How did his previous relationship end?

Jayne if it was, surely you'd not just leave it lying around would you?

Hope it's good news
Possibly found at work tho and forgot to put it in the safe.

He could have found it anywhere, doesn't have to have been found at home, he prob had it in his pocket and plonked it on the side when he realised.

Why does he cry so much?

Fingers crossed for your proposal but I wouldn't get too excited just yet x

He's back at 9.00 the OP says....we'll just have to be patient.

{Drums fingers}

Fingers crossed OP

Beer there's a difference between a man who shows his emotions and a man who spends a week crying and cries every time op says she loves him.

I know Beer. My DH cries easily too...he's just that way inclined. I do think things are changing though....my DD is coming up 9 and according to her, the boys in her class cry more than the girls. She thinks it's fine...she says "Boys seem to get more upset but their friends make them feel ok again." Bless!

There's showing your emotions and there's crying all the time...

Hoping for a nice outcome for you OP!

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Hoping for good news....