OMG !!! Guess what I've just found!!!???

[Leigh1980]

I've name changed due to my partner knowing my username hee hee!!

I've just found a very dainty petit diamond ring on the bedside table (his side). We only have one. This also holds my make up and bits 'n bobs.

We've only been together and living together for four months but we both know we ate meant for each other.

What do I do? Do I ask him about it? Wait for him to bring it up? It's basically sitting on top behind my little clock. Do you think it's meant for me? I've no idea when he could have purchased it either. So confused but also so excited. I'm to nervous to bring it up, but maybe he is nervous too and hoping I'd see it and bring it up myself. Aaaahhhh!!! Do you think it's an engagement ring!? We're both so in love with each other!!

Need your wisdom and experience :-)9

This a small white gold ring with a row of small diamonds on it.

Well definitely not mine (sob) but it does sound like an engagement ring. I think you have to ask him about it...!

Too much sugar in this thread... especially after i've just devoured one of those MilkyBar deserts.

I just can't imagine anyone - even the shiest of people - proposing to their partner by leaving a ring loose on a bedside table for 2 days.

If he's a chef, maybe he's found it at work and popped it into his pocket for safe keeping? And now he's just forgotten about it since emptying his pockets?

Just ask him because i'm dying to know

Did he move in with you?Could he have found it in the flat and thought it was yours and just picked it up and put it with your things?
And my other thought was OW left it there..
Sorry,I'm a bit cynical too..
But I actually really hope it's an engagement ring for you!

The lack of box worries me, and the fact it is on the side. Found at work is a possibility....presumably you take jewellery off in the kitchen?

Really hope this turns out well!seems very odd. Think you have to ask op x

Where did you meet him, OP? Despite me being cynical I love a bit of romance.

I hope it is what you want it to be OP

Please come back and update us

Yes I have that ad.

Op you have to consider he found it at work. This seems likely to me. More than just abandoning it on the side.

Shamelessly marking my place!! Fingers crossed for you

Strangest way to propose if that is what it is.

Good luck though.

Oh god I want this to end well

I don't think it will

Maybe I've been reading too much MN threads but if I found a piece of Jewellery on my bedside table without a box I would be very very angry because who the hell would it therefore belong to

It sounds more like a wedding ring :)

Hope it's what you think OP

Hmmm... you've been together and living together 4 months, you never leave the house without him and he knows your MN username? I'm not sure marriage is a great idea.

My money is on him finding it at work.

He's so nervous he can't bring himself to propose and 'hopes you mention it'. It's been left on the table for 2 days. He cries all the time. The ring is so thin you mistook it for a bit of wire. You never leave the house unless you're with him.

I'm assuming the film rights to this have already been snapped up...?

Ok...i'll stop being a horrible old cynic in case this is a proposal. Good luck OP....ask him and put us all out of our misery!

If he found it at work he shouldn't really have taken it home..so maybe it is for you? Hope so!

The fact it's not in a box is a bit odd.

I'm a bit at all the veiled comments on here about your relationship/how much time you spend together etc.

I hope you are popping the champagne later OP.

Does it have scratches on like a used ring would?

Definitely ask him. You owe it to us

Well, TV's always shite on Saturday nights anyway.

It's an odd place for an OW to leave a diamond ring. Maybe I'm being naive, but I'm in the 'too shy to ask' camp.

I very much doubt he has another woman. Then again, I very much doubt it's a proposal.

There'll be some simple explanation.

Marking my place for the outcome.

Wear it and see what he says op.