I carry an air of offensive self satisfaction when my dd, in sensible shoes, walks by children in stillettos and flipflops 
I carry an air of non-offensive self satisfaction when my dd was offered free sweets by a lady in the street, my 3 yr old replied "no thank you" and the lady offering melted at the first child that day to turn them down.
In fact i carry an awful lot of self-satisfaction in such things, but as it is non-offensive most of the time, i shall answer no i am not a snob 