aero
FWIW, and I am only posting this in the hope that you might feel better, I suspect that carla's drink problem is ongoing, and will be such for a while. i suspect that is what lies behind her most bizzarre posts on MN which frustrate so many of us as well as Carla.
I'm sure when she realises you were sincere she will be mortified. As I said, I thought your patience was amazing. Disregard the comments made here, please.