Hi my daughter has been at nursery (attached to a primary school) for 8 days. 3 hours every weekday morning.Yesterday the teacher told me my daughter needs a behavioural specialist due to her 'passive non compliance' in other words she doesn't immediately do what they say as soon as they ask it. And sometimes interrupts them when they are talking to her with an unrelated query. Keep in mind that me and my husband have no extended family and she has been with us from birth to age 3 only going playgroup an hour a week and softplay. Also she was an angel at home up until this point. Suddenly she is surly, upset, and is almost out of control and begun to spit. I am dumb founded, as up until that point they had said she was good in nursery. This whole thing is stressing me to the point were I feel like pulling her out of nursery altogether so I can get my good girl back. Do you think what they are saying is fair? She's just turned 3.