I had a toxic mum - 'you are an ugly whore, I hate you, I wish you weren't born, you were a mistake'. blah foxing blah.
I now have wonderful DD aged 5 and DS aged 2.6. DS is happy but DD needs a lot of love.
Please tell me about your loving mums, what do they do to make you feel LOVED. Truly loved? I give my DC attention, listen to them, cuddle them, smile, play. What else made you know you were special?
Id love to hear your perspective.