So I'm on maternity getting smp, partner works full time, we get some uc and child benefit, since being on maternity my partner keeps saying I'm bringing nothing to the table, that I should get a better job and stop depending on him, we have 4 children. If we argue he says I'm bipolar (im not) he says this when I finally lose my shit... and i should get out of his house that he pays for every month, I've worked since leaving school whilst he's only worked for the past 2 years.. am I being a sponge??