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Empty sac

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Itonlytakesone · 20/05/2024 14:15

Initially found at a private clinic sat and again today epu I have an empty sac no embryo inside. (6+6) Going back in a week to get re scan & my options anyone also going through this if you are maybe we can go through it together Smile

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Itonlytakesone · 25/05/2024 10:39

@bluebutterfly8
I love how you can look on the bright side I need to be able to do this! It's tough because how I feel physically is a constant reminder Sad

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bluebutterfly8 · 25/05/2024 16:39

I don't have a choice i guess, every day is just dragging now! Trying to keep busy...

You mentioned you stopped taking multi vitamins - so did I tbh until this morning when I was really light headed - my irons probably low as usual!

How are you? What have you been upto today? Weathers been nice.. I did the washing and we went out food shopping.

Itonlytakesone · 25/05/2024 18:53

@bluebutterfly8
I actually started the vitamins again I'm thinking the amount that's in them it might help me feel less crap.

I just chilled out with my little girl and took her swimming it's been really nice today hasn't it...the days are dragging yes totally though Hmm

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bluebutterfly8 · 25/05/2024 22:28

Yh tbf i only started folic acid/vit d and iron because I knew I was preg.. i actually can't even bothered now but really we should just for general h&w. :-)

Swimming sounds nice - weather was nice but it's raining now! Hope it's nice through next week otherwise kids are going to do my head in inside!

Still seems like such a long time till the next scan eh!

Itonlytakesone · 27/05/2024 08:35

@bluebutterfly8

How are you doing today? I'm still the same. Only today to last then I'll get my head around whatever comes my way tomorrow and I'll let you know on here what happens Smile I'm ready to deal with it now after an emotional rollercoaster of week 🎢

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bluebutterfly8 · 27/05/2024 09:07

I'm ok - my preg symptoms have disappeared. No cramps/bleeding. So, I'm mentally prepared for whats to come.

Goodluck for tomorrow, will be thinking of you. Which ever way it goes, you're not alone!

Hopefully, tomorrow will go fast for me because I'll be working.

bluebutterfly8 · 28/05/2024 08:35

@Itonlytakesone

Goodluck for today, thinking of you ♡

Itonlytakesone · 28/05/2024 10:26

@bluebutterfly8
Still empty unfortunately Sadofficially over

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bluebutterfly8 · 28/05/2024 10:52

@Itonlytakesone

I'm so sorry! :-( Flowers
I've been thinking about you all morning.

What have they suggested going forward?

Itonlytakesone · 28/05/2024 11:02

Iv got to wait another 2 weeks iv whittled it down to 1week 😭I’m measuring 6 weeks and 1 day sac grown from 16-19 i can’t cope with this

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bluebutterfly8 · 28/05/2024 11:23

What should you have measured?

As if! Another scan? Is that to make sure? Another week of misery and impatiently waiting.

I can 100% imagine what you're going through. Nothing can be worse than this right now.

Itonlytakesone · 28/05/2024 11:53

Another week of misery yes!😞 @bluebutterfly8 what's going to happen with you?🤔

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bluebutterfly8 · 28/05/2024 11:57

@Itonlytakesone

If I'm honest, it doesn't look good - ALL my symptoms have disappeared since the past few days. It's like a normal day :/ wouldn't even know I was preg if it wasn't the pos preg test.

I'm expecting the worst too..

bluebutterfly8 · 28/05/2024 16:13

@Itonlytakesone

You ok?

If I'm honest, I was expecting good news today - I'm so scared and nervous now - almost like realitys hit me.

Itonlytakesone · 28/05/2024 17:52

@bluebutterfly8
Yeah I'm ok I'm just frustrated because I know my outcome and thought I'd be able to get my plan in place today, I think I was only millimetres away from the guidelines letting me. I know it's just the way it goes but it's all the waiting when i know the outcome already. Nothing I can do just be healthy and wait.

I'm not sure how yours will go but you need to let me know tomorrow but I'll still be here another week! 🤣

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bluebutterfly8 · 28/05/2024 21:45

I guess you now know which direction you're heading to so you can sort of mentally prepare..

I'm nervous as ever about tomorrow.
I know it's not going to go right.
At this point, I just want to know and then can plan going forwards..

But yh I'll let you know, mine's not till afternoon though!

Itonlytakesone · 29/05/2024 06:48

@bluebutterfly8

I'll be thinking of you today I know what it's like Smile

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Itonlytakesone · 29/05/2024 13:51

Iv pains today low down feeling totally wiped out too not looking good for me 🥹

@bluebutterfly8

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bluebutterfly8 · 29/05/2024 14:03

@Itonlytakesone

Awww no. Hope it's over for you quickly.

I've just had my scan - can see the sac and that's it. I'm waiting for the doc to call me.

Itonlytakesone · 29/05/2024 14:17

@bluebutterfly8
Same as me then just a sac. Let me know what he says, they had a long chat with me about it all

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bluebutterfly8 · 29/05/2024 14:23

@Itonlytakesone

I will do - she wants my blood pressure checking now - no idea why. The sac has gone a bit bigger aswell just like yours. I'm intrigued with how our experiences were literally identical lool!!

I feel a little relieved if I'm honest. I just need this to end and move on with life.

Itonlytakesone · 29/05/2024 14:26

I thought i had pains but now it just feels like stretching again. No bleeding nothing.
Yours is very similar to mine?! I bet they'll leave you a week and rescan and if they do we've got each other another week🤣

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Itonlytakesone · 29/05/2024 14:29

@bluebutterfly8 also sonographer report said my sac had changed not shape but kind of volume or something epillisod or something not sure if that's anything

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bluebutterfly8 · 29/05/2024 14:35

@Itonlytakesone
Omg I will not be surprised hahaha! She just said the doctor will come and tell you your 'options' hmmmm still waiting

And my sonographer was rubbish - didn't give me any info - just started staring at the screen with her head tilted acting really confused then suddenly goes wait 1 sec do you mind me doing the internal scan AGAIN. I'm like yh (got my hopes high) and then moves it about for 2 secs and then said you know what I'll leave it to the doctor and doesn't say a word after that.

Honestly, if I didn't take this lightly I'd be a right mess. Lol

bluebutterfly8 · 29/05/2024 14:36

Yh no pain/bleeding here either, bet it's that small bit of fluid (sac) making you feel like somethings actually happening when it's not.