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Second miscarriage in 4 months

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Figtree11 · 30/03/2024 20:30

Feeling heartbroken. Going through what I think is my second miscarriage in 4 months. TTC my first baby. I am 7 or 8 weeks.

I had a MMC in November which started off with brown spotting/bleeding. This lasted for 3 days before the red blood starting, and in that time it was diagnosed as a MMC (was 10 weeks but measuring 10)

Today I went to the toilet & when I wiped there was some pinky blood. I wiped again & it was brown.
3 hours later there is now more brown bleeding.
This is exactly how my last MC started.

I’m devastated. I can’t believe this is happening again.

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Livia515 · 15/05/2024 13:22

Hello, I was searching online for posts and came across yours. I had a MMC in February and MC last week so similar. I hope you’re ok and I guess it was just to share my story ad incase like me you find it comforting in some way. Xxx

Figtree11 · 15/05/2024 14:55

Livia515 · 15/05/2024 13:22

Hello, I was searching online for posts and came across yours. I had a MMC in February and MC last week so similar. I hope you’re ok and I guess it was just to share my story ad incase like me you find it comforting in some way. Xxx

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I’m so sorry you have experienced the same. It’s just awful. I’m now nearly 2 weeks post surgery for mine. Still feeling low emotionally.
How are you doing? I agree talking to others who have experienced the same is comforting x

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Livia515 · 15/05/2024 18:57

Hi :) thank you it’s just awful! I feel strange I think I’m still a bit numb, this happened last time it took a while to hit me? I was so anxious with this last pregnancy something would go wrong and then it did 😞

I just desperately wanted both of the babies and all I can think about is trying again, people say when you’re ready but I’m not ‘ready’ but even less ready to not try either! Xx

Figtree11 · 16/05/2024 16:02

@Livia515 yeah I think it can take a while for reality to hit. I think as both times I’ve been waiting for either medication or for surgery, I then felt a bit of relief when it was over. Then it was the days after I got really low.

I totally get what you mean about trying again! I’m in a rush for my period to return so I’m back to some normality. But just feel if I am lucky enough to get pregnant again, I just can’t imagine it going well

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Livia515 · 16/05/2024 18:26

Awww yeah how many weeks were you? I waited a week From bleeding starting with first one in January but this last one it was so quick over in a day, not sure what was worse!

Yeah I’m the same my period came after about 6 weeks last time how long was yours? I’ve been to buy supplements today, back on the ttc journey 😭

Figtree11 · 16/05/2024 18:32

I was 12wks and last time I was 10wks. Both missed miscarriages with no growth from a couple of weeks prior. How about you?

It took me 8 weeks for a period last time. I did a test today & there is still an obvious line, so feel like I’m in for a long wait again!

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Livia515 · 16/05/2024 19:52

Aw first was missed (I think, no one ever told me this?!) because I had a scan and the baby hadn’t grown past 5/6 weeks even though I was 9 weeks when it all passed.

Then my second one I was 6/7 weeks and like I say that was quick I think, but they didn’t see anything on a scan at all because by the time I’d got to the scan I’d passed everything. They said it was ‘unknown location’ so said it may be ectopic so I needed blood tests which I absolutely hate and I knew what had happened!

Aww yeah I had a line still last time but I’m sure I ovulated last time! How long ago was it did you say 2 weeks?

Figtree11 · 16/05/2024 20:17

They class it as missed I think if the heartbeat stopped weeks before it was found out. My most recent one was found at the 12wk scan.
Yeah it was 2 weeks ago since I had surgery to manage it. Doing fine physically now & no more bleeding. Just waiting for that negative test now!

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Livia515 · 16/05/2024 21:54

Yeah awww did you find out at the scan, it’s so hard isn’t it! My second one was a week ago bleeding has stopped now so just waiting for normal cycle again too :/

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