Still waiting

[GuybrushThreepwoodMP]

Found out baby is measuring 3 weeks behind on Thursday. Should have been 9 weeks. Waiting to miscarry. This is torture.

aww guybrush thanks also for your response we cross posted. for the things i am panicking about that has offered me some reassurance.

no matter where i am home or edinburgh i cant control the pain its the blood that panicked me most. thank you for detailing tht for me thank you to both of you i will sleep better now and may even get a bit excited for my trip.

thank you. wishing you both a peaceful nights sleep.

Also it didn't happen suddenly for me. I felt all day that maybe something was going to happen soon and had a definite couple of hours of pain building gradually even once I was sure it was happening. There was enough warning for me even if I had been out and about.
Night night.

Scan today showed sac gone but still quite a lot of blood and clots. Which makes sense because I haven't really bleed as much as o would have expected.
Consultant is still happy to do surgery so I'm supposed to go in as planned tomorrow and decide then.
No idea what to do.

how are you feeling guy? what are you thinking of doing? if the sac has passed will it just continue to come away?

im sorry you had a bad experience envious and appreciate that can happen. i got thru the journey which was the thing i was most worried about. dont have any obvious signs its on its way either just dark brown spotting mostly when i press if that makes sense (tmi) so if i can get through tomoro ill be happy.

on the plus side hotel bathroom is much more comfortable than mine i have everything i think id need if i was at home and it happened and although i havent checked im assuming there will be a hospital nearby should i need it. thank you for sharing your experience. i do appreciate it and hope youre ok now.

How you're having a lovely time in Edinburgh ginger!
I had the surgical management yesterday after all. I was scared but it was fine. All done now. I hope you're doing ok.

how r u feeling today? glad its out the way and hopefully you are on the mend now. we have been tormented with this for long enough!

edinburgh was fab glad came home today though market was crazy busy and not so fun. managed to have a few drinks whilst there, even though i knew i had mc i couldnt bring myself to drink at first.

nothing happened mc wise so that was a relief too. still not really any signs of it happening. been wearing pads and getting some blood but barely anything not even needing to change so unless i am have a weird mc and this is it its going to be a long and slow build up. my body must think my mind is made of steel!

How are you doing ginger? I hope things happen for you soon. The waiting is so so tough.

hi guy im ok thankyou. returning to work tomo as cant cope with my thoughts any longer.

still hasnt happened been brown spotting for over a week but nothing else, becoming a long wait.

how are you after friday?