when you have a missed miscarrige, why doesn't your body realise your baby has died? and does that mean its less likely to because of an auto immune problem?

[whiteandyelloworchid]

a friend told me in a way its good if your body does not go into mc mode straight away as it means your bodys really trying to hang onto the baby

so what im wondering is
1, why doesnt the body miscarry normally? why does the body try to hang onto to the baby?
2, if you have a mmc, does this mean its lesslikely to be beacause of an immune problem[say your body attacking the baby]
because surely if the body was attacking the baby a mc would happen faster

hmmm mine got heavier but everyones diff.
yeh im good. just mega busy which i suppose is good since my first preg was due this thursday, so less time to sit thinking and being miserable x

This is a bit long ago but I’m curious as to what treatment did you have for nk cells? Did you have intralipid? I am on my second MC and they said my nk cells are to active so I was doing intralipid and still lost the baby. I don’t know what’s wrong with my body. I have done PCs testing in embryos which are all good so it has to be me not being able to carry. I had no pregnancy symptoms or now of the loss. No bleeding nothing. Anything would help. Thanks.