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Holy mother of CRAP..this was defo NOT part of my plans...what the jeff do i do??

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nosleepwithworry · 06/06/2012 10:52

I had my 7th mcs about 9 weeks ago (i think, i didnt write any dates down, have little memory of about 2 weeks during the time, due to the drugs i was pumped with)
In short, i dont know when it occurred.

Ive sought councelling because i have never talked about my mcs ever, to any one.(well, only to you lot Smile)
Additionally, i am coming up 42, and thught that that was IT the end, no more, even went and got the pill.

Patiently waiting for my period so that i could start taking the damned thing.
No af as yet.
Feeling much better in myself, councelling really really helping, im on a healthy eating mission (thanks to myfitnesspal) doing really well.

Accepting everything, although the grief has been overwhelming at times Sad.

So af still not here, so bought a cheepy test, thought that all pregnancy hrmones will now be gone...this far after mc....almost immediately a pink line came up.

We dtd only a couple of times..it normally took me up to 22 months to concieve so this has floored me...completely and totally. Do not know what the jeff i should do?????????
All calming words of wisdom very much appreciated....i know i know, theres no fool like an old fool.. Sad

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nosleepwithworry · 27/06/2012 19:20

oooh get me...a "regular" 12 week scan.
Yes, im a normal pregnant woman now.

Will book in with the midwife next week.
9 weeks on Friday, do midwives see you that early?

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FriskyBivalves · 27/06/2012 19:20

Oh please please treat yourself to a ten week scan so more delurkers can envelop you in un-Mumsnetty hugs!! I know I wouldn't be able to wait another whole month on Blob Watch Grin.

Jacksmania · 27/06/2012 19:22

I wonder exactly how many of us are lurking on this thread :o

De-lurking to say CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

5madthings · 27/06/2012 19:23

depends i got booked in at about that, gives them time to arrange your 12wk scan and given your history yes i am sure they will book you in. some places dont let you book in till 10wks plus but i booked in at about 9wks with mine due to issues in a previous pregnancy and they were fine with that.

wow, bet you are on cloud 9! Grin

massive congratulations :)

Tillyscoutsmum · 27/06/2012 19:23

I am so happy for you. Genuinely like this >> Grin Grin

I've been on so many of your threads before and I really hope (and feel) that this is the one !!

xxx

SconesForTea · 27/06/2012 19:23

Delurking to say a massive WOOOO HOOOOO!!!! Congratulations and all the best with your pregnancy!

oiwheresthecoffee · 27/06/2012 19:24

Have you told your DH ?

AWomanCalledHorse · 27/06/2012 19:24

Another de-lurker here! Massive CONGRATULATIONS xxxxx

Piffpaffpoff · 27/06/2012 19:27

Another lurker. Brilliant news!!!!!!!!

nosleepwithworry · 27/06/2012 19:28

DH was with me at the scan.
I looked away from the screen, stopped breathing for about 15 minutes (im sure)
squeezed his hand almost to death.
Lovely lovely Sonographer immediately turned to screen to me and said "look, a heart beat".
Of course i couldn't see as i was bawling, so she kept getting it up on the screen for me, until i could see it clearly.
She kept saying "its there, its there"!

Trouble is that i once had a scan, about 10 years ago and it was one of my own pulsating blood vessels that they picked up...so i asked her to be absolutely sure it was a babies HB..."LOOK, its there..look" she said..and there it was Smile

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GwendolineMaryLacey · 27/06/2012 19:29

Fanbloodytastic! Huuuuuuuuuge congratulations :o

5madthings · 27/06/2012 19:31

so pleased he was there with you as well, i am not suprised there were tears! this thread is making me cry Blush

the sonographer sounds lovely :)

oiwheresthecoffee · 27/06/2012 19:34

Awww. Im so Grin for you.

livismum · 27/06/2012 19:34

Been checking all day!! Soooooooooo pleased for you both! I had booking in at 8 weeks so get yourself on the phone 1st thing! Grin

MakesCakesWhenStressed · 27/06/2012 19:37

Yay :-)

porridgelover · 27/06/2012 19:39

Oh my. I am SO pleased for you. I was thinking of you during the day.
Will be here for more news as it comes. Best wishes :)

StopTalkingAndEatYourDinner · 27/06/2012 19:39

Delighted for you. What lovely, lovely news!

ReportMeNow · 27/06/2012 19:40

that's so lovely, you've made me well up

Floggingmolly · 27/06/2012 19:43

Delighted for you Smile

MissBeehivingUnderTheMistletoe · 27/06/2012 19:45

Been lurking - what lovely, lovely news Smile

Sittinginthesun · 27/06/2012 19:48

So pleased for you Grin. X

tiredteddy · 27/06/2012 19:49

Been reading your thread and am very very happy for you! Onwards to the midwife! Yay Grin

pullupapew · 27/06/2012 19:49

This has just made me smile, I am so very very pleased to hear this wonderful news Grin and here's a Brew for you while you get your feet up now!

PrinceRogersNelson · 27/06/2012 19:51

I'm lurking too. Lovely, lovely news.

catinboots · 27/06/2012 19:53

Yay!!!!!!

I will have a lovely glass of wine on your behalf Wink

Wishing you the happiest and healthiest pregnancy in the world Grin