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Holy mother of CRAP..this was defo NOT part of my plans...what the jeff do i do??

676 replies

nosleepwithworry · 06/06/2012 10:52

I had my 7th mcs about 9 weeks ago (i think, i didnt write any dates down, have little memory of about 2 weeks during the time, due to the drugs i was pumped with)
In short, i dont know when it occurred.

Ive sought councelling because i have never talked about my mcs ever, to any one.(well, only to you lot Smile)
Additionally, i am coming up 42, and thught that that was IT the end, no more, even went and got the pill.

Patiently waiting for my period so that i could start taking the damned thing.
No af as yet.
Feeling much better in myself, councelling really really helping, im on a healthy eating mission (thanks to myfitnesspal) doing really well.

Accepting everything, although the grief has been overwhelming at times Sad.

So af still not here, so bought a cheepy test, thought that all pregnancy hrmones will now be gone...this far after mc....almost immediately a pink line came up.

We dtd only a couple of times..it normally took me up to 22 months to concieve so this has floored me...completely and totally. Do not know what the jeff i should do?????????
All calming words of wisdom very much appreciated....i know i know, theres no fool like an old fool.. Sad

OP posts:
Geeklette · 27/06/2012 08:14

Just de-lurking long enough to wish you the very best of luck for today's scan. This thread has been a joy to read, and so well-deserved after the heartbreak you have gone through.

ThisWeekonFancyPuffin · 27/06/2012 08:28

Wishing you the very best for today.

WheresMyCow · 27/06/2012 08:46

Your last post made me Sad try not to be too hard on yourself.

I will be thinking of you today and hoping so so much that this is a good scan for you (((hugs)))

artifarti · 27/06/2012 09:27

Such a lovely thread. Good luck today.

iloveberries · 27/06/2012 09:54

thinking of you and good luck today at yourscan!

Mama1980 · 27/06/2012 09:55

Good luck Smile

5madthings · 27/06/2012 11:05

good luck today, thinking of you xxxxxxxxxx

Countmyblessings · 27/06/2012 11:47

Holding breath until you post with update! Praying all will be well for you both!!! Xxxx

LadyInPink · 27/06/2012 13:18

Fingers are firmly crossed for you today for the scan x

OddBoots · 27/06/2012 15:33

Thinking of you and sending love.

HJBeans · 27/06/2012 18:34

Just joining the chorus of folks thinking of you and wishing the best for today.

Xx

finnbarr · 27/06/2012 18:50

So...? I've had everything crossed all day x

5madthings · 27/06/2012 18:53

still thinking of you, hoping all went well xxxx

minceorotherwise · 27/06/2012 18:54

Fingers and thumbs all crossed here for you too x

libelulle · 27/06/2012 18:57

Another lurker wishing you well and hoping for a good news update, I can only imagine how hard this must be for you xx

nosleepwithworry · 27/06/2012 19:07

Sooooooo

There is still a blob there with a heartbeat and everything!!! Grin

Same fab Sonographer from my last shocker scan..yay!!!!

She did it with an external scanning device..my little blob was big enough to see with that! No need for an internal scan.

Then as i was leaving, she gave me a hug and said "Go and get booked in with your midwife now"!!!

me and a midwife..fancy that!
Apparently, thats what normal people do??

Holy mother of crappola!

So its really happening.
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SO happy Smile

OP posts:
jenbird · 27/06/2012 19:10

Another lurker here. Been checking up for your news all day. So very very happy for you x

HairyPotter · 27/06/2012 19:12

Coming out of lurkdom to say how happy I am for you. Such wonderful news xx

oiwheresthecoffee · 27/06/2012 19:12

Oh im so happy for you ! You dont know me but ive been reading your thread. I know its not allowed but have a massive ((((((HUG))))))

minceorotherwise · 27/06/2012 19:13

Oh crikey!!!!!!!!!
Fab, fab fab!!!!
Better get booked in with the midwife then!!!!

Spink · 27/06/2012 19:13

Another lurker whooping maniacally for you. HURRAH!!

5madthings · 27/06/2012 19:14

oh my god, tears here! have been nervously waiting for your update all day, so so THRILLED FOR YOU!!! yes huge hugs, and woohooo go book in with your midwife!!!

its really happening indeed, hope you got another picture of your bean, how is dh, thrilled as well? now go and get some sleep! xxxx

keep us updated, will your next scan be the regular 12wk one? :)

just Grin Grin Grin for you!

mumofjust1 · 27/06/2012 19:18

Have been lurking, wanted my first post to be a big

CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Hope all goes perfectly with your pregnancy :)

x

RandomMess · 27/06/2012 19:18

Fantastic, fantastic, fantastic Grin

kittykatsforever · 27/06/2012 19:19

Like like like Grin