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Holy mother of CRAP..this was defo NOT part of my plans...what the jeff do i do??

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nosleepwithworry · 06/06/2012 10:52

I had my 7th mcs about 9 weeks ago (i think, i didnt write any dates down, have little memory of about 2 weeks during the time, due to the drugs i was pumped with)
In short, i dont know when it occurred.

Ive sought councelling because i have never talked about my mcs ever, to any one.(well, only to you lot Smile)
Additionally, i am coming up 42, and thught that that was IT the end, no more, even went and got the pill.

Patiently waiting for my period so that i could start taking the damned thing.
No af as yet.
Feeling much better in myself, councelling really really helping, im on a healthy eating mission (thanks to myfitnesspal) doing really well.

Accepting everything, although the grief has been overwhelming at times Sad.

So af still not here, so bought a cheepy test, thought that all pregnancy hrmones will now be gone...this far after mc....almost immediately a pink line came up.

We dtd only a couple of times..it normally took me up to 22 months to concieve so this has floored me...completely and totally. Do not know what the jeff i should do?????????
All calming words of wisdom very much appreciated....i know i know, theres no fool like an old fool.. Sad

OP posts:
ElephantsCanRemember · 27/06/2012 19:56

What fantastic news Grin

gottohide · 27/06/2012 19:57

So happy for you, will be crossing everything and sending lots of positive thoughts your way!

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nosleepwithworry · 27/06/2012 20:01

Was wondering if willitbe was around and whether or not she tested as she was going to test around about now i think.....I have everything crossed for her.

HUGE HUGE thank you to all of you, for your lovely lovey words of support, for being here with me to hold my hand and for just being so utterly utterly lovely and kind and as excited as i am. It means such allot because i cant tell anyone in RL..DH thinks it will tempt fate.
I LOVE that i can share with you all xxxxxxxxxxxx

OP posts:
dearprudence · 27/06/2012 20:11

Congratulations from another lurker x

IawnCont · 27/06/2012 20:13

Ah! Brilliant! How many weeks then nosleep?

nosleepwithworry · 27/06/2012 20:14

9 on Friday....got some way to go yet till i can completely relaxed.

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WhatDreamsMayCome · 27/06/2012 20:21

F-A-N-T-A-S-T-I-C!!!!!!!!!!! Grin

LadyInPink · 27/06/2012 20:24

YAY!! I am so happy for you, that has made my day i have been refreshing your thread all afternoon

It's 8 years to the day that I gave birth to my DD and i too remember the scan that showed a tiny pulsating bean after a m/c.

Smile Smile Smile can't stop smiling for you OP Smile Smile Smile

worrywortisworrying · 27/06/2012 20:26

YEAH!!!! I saw this thread in the active convos and my heart was like 'please be good new, please be good news, PLEASE'

SOOO happy for you. you have a lot of virtual support, NoSleep

Will keep up the positive vibes

Jodidi · 27/06/2012 20:29

I'm thrilled for you that this is still going well. Here's hoping you continue to have a normal and healthy pregnancy.
Congratulations! xx

LaVitaBellissima · 27/06/2012 20:41

Thanks huge congratulations Grin

minceorotherwise · 27/06/2012 20:41

You know what, yes you have a long way to go
But, hey, why the hell not? No reason it should not be your time, your turn
Best of luck!!!

Passmethecrisps · 27/06/2012 20:47

I've just read all 10 pages of this in one go. I could barely flick from Tuesday's posts to Wednesday's. Proper tears though.

What an incredible journey all of you are on. Enjoy each and every day

wantingmore · 27/06/2012 20:59

thats fantastic news. i am so happy for you.Grin

newtonupontheheath · 27/06/2012 21:19

Been checking in throughout the day for your update... What fantastic news!!

GrinGrinGrinGrin

Wishing you the very best of luck, you deserve it! Grin

WheresMyCow · 27/06/2012 21:22

Yippee GrinGrin had to come on and see if there was an update...couldn't wait until work tomorrow!!!

So pleased for you nosleep, have just told DH why I've come on mumsnet and he's grinning too.

Put your feet up and get plenty of nana naps...oh and have a (((hug))) Grin

iloveberries · 27/06/2012 21:36

fantastic news! i am so delighted for you :)

neolara · 27/06/2012 21:39

Yay! Delighted for you both.

50ShadesOfSaggy · 27/06/2012 21:51

Ive just seen this thread in active convos. It has made me cry like a baby! Grin
I'm crossing everything for you. X

wizzler · 27/06/2012 22:03

Oh congratulations!... have been lurking on here... delighted for you .. now just enjoy every moment of being a normal mum to be...

fengirl1 · 27/06/2012 22:07

Yay!!!!! Grin

johnnycomelurky · 27/06/2012 22:39

Another de-lurking to say congratulations!!!! Grin

UnrequitedSkink · 27/06/2012 22:40

I've just read this whole thread from beginning to end... tears in my eyes now!! So so happy, will be keeping everything crossed for you x

Thumbwitch · 28/06/2012 00:48

So so pleased for you! Seeing/hearing that heartbeat makes up for so much heartache, I found! Everything still crossed for you that it all keeps going well - and yes, start booking to see everyone :)

I won't tell you to relax (I still haven't quite managed to do so at 24w!) but you can start to Grin