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Holy mother of CRAP..this was defo NOT part of my plans...what the jeff do i do??

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nosleepwithworry · 06/06/2012 10:52

I had my 7th mcs about 9 weeks ago (i think, i didnt write any dates down, have little memory of about 2 weeks during the time, due to the drugs i was pumped with)
In short, i dont know when it occurred.

Ive sought councelling because i have never talked about my mcs ever, to any one.(well, only to you lot Smile)
Additionally, i am coming up 42, and thught that that was IT the end, no more, even went and got the pill.

Patiently waiting for my period so that i could start taking the damned thing.
No af as yet.
Feeling much better in myself, councelling really really helping, im on a healthy eating mission (thanks to myfitnesspal) doing really well.

Accepting everything, although the grief has been overwhelming at times Sad.

So af still not here, so bought a cheepy test, thought that all pregnancy hrmones will now be gone...this far after mc....almost immediately a pink line came up.

We dtd only a couple of times..it normally took me up to 22 months to concieve so this has floored me...completely and totally. Do not know what the jeff i should do?????????
All calming words of wisdom very much appreciated....i know i know, theres no fool like an old fool.. Sad

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wilderumpus · 14/06/2012 12:05

hi nosleep, congrats, congrats but totally understand why you are so pragmatic about it. So happy though that you have another chance :) talk away on the pg after mc thread won't you, if you need to, think quite a few of us have read this thread now and understand more where you are coming from. xx

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nosleepwithworry · 14/06/2012 15:10

Told dh! Of course he cried....bless!!!

Had to have a nana nap at luch time.Smile

still Grin and still thinking in my head "Holy mother of crap"!!!!!

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Hullygully · 14/06/2012 15:18

I am so crossed I have fallen over xx

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nosleepwithworry · 14/06/2012 15:23

DO NOT under any circumstances UNCROSS...ok, just keep it all crossed...even on the floor.....

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birdofthenorth · 14/06/2012 15:24

This thread made me cry! Keeping absolutely everything crossed for you OP!!

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DameHermione · 14/06/2012 15:31

Oooooh.

Justooooooooh.

And

Hurrah!

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fannybaws · 14/06/2012 15:38

Just read this and had to post, good luck op xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx everything crossed xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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nosleepwithworry · 14/06/2012 15:47

7 weeks tomorrow....happyhappyhappyhappy Smile

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ThisWeekonFancyPuffin · 14/06/2012 16:06


So so happy for you Grin

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skirt · 14/06/2012 16:14

Me too. This is one of those threads I know I will look for each and every day. Love and luck x

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TheOneWithTheHair · 14/06/2012 16:26

Have you saved the pic nosleep or have you kept it back 'till Sunday?

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TheOneWithTheHair · 14/06/2012 16:27

Have you shown him the pic nosleep* or have you kept it back 'till Sunday?

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TheOneWithTheHair · 14/06/2012 16:27

I give up!

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teedeeuk · 14/06/2012 18:52

What a wonderful thread! Wishing you all the luck in the world OP :)

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LadyInPink · 14/06/2012 19:06

Just read this and just had to post. Am keeping everythinhg crossed too and am totally thrilled that you have a heart beating bean - YAY!! My best scan pic is the one at 5+6 wks where the tiny bean had a pumping heartbeat and i nearly jumped off the couch for joy - this was after a mc and she is nearly 8 yrs old.

So happy for you and your DH and I can't wait to hear how he reacts to his card on Sunday Smile

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finnbarr · 14/06/2012 20:08

Oh I just cried about the sonographer!!! I have EVERYTHiNG crossed!!! Xxxx

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tunnocksteacake · 15/06/2012 10:22

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nosleepwithworry · 15/06/2012 20:01

Gave him the picture on Wednesday evening...he cried natch!

Thanks for all the well wishes, i could burst with happiness Smile

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Munchin · 15/06/2012 20:20

Hi Nosleep just read through this thread and wanted to say congrats and I have fx that this time you will get to hold your baby. I recently had a mmc but I cannot imagine having 7 mc's. I don't blame you not wanting to believe it in the beginning but yes today you are pg!!!

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Coconutty · 15/06/2012 20:28

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wilderumpus · 15/06/2012 21:21

hurray nosleep! I am sooooo excited for you :) My mc was a BO too. bugger shit but those scans of an empty sac were heartbreaking (took 4 weeks and three scans for them to totally agree it was a failed pg, had medical mc at 10 weeks). I have had a terrible time grieving for my one mc, let alone 7. Am so happy for you and your DH xx

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Pumpster · 15/06/2012 21:26

So happy for you! Grin

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WhatDreamsMayCome · 16/06/2012 12:31

Congratulations nosleep! You do realise that you now have to post on here at least once at week with your progress! Smile You probably already know this, but sleeping on your left side is supposed to be beneficial for the baby. Wishing you the best of luck with your progress.

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newtonupontheheath · 16/06/2012 12:37

This is an amazing story.... Huge congrats!

I've read a couple of times now, keeping up to date with your progress. Can't imagine how hard everything must have been for you but wishing you the very best of luck.

Have a fantastic fathers day Wink

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newtonupontheheath · 16/06/2012 12:38

That should be Smile or even Grin not Wink

Blush

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