Hi,, just wanted to add my experience of Elleste.
I'm 44 and have been having menopausal symptoms for a couple of years before starting Elleste 3 months ago, I had patches for 3 months before that but couldn't get the buggers to stick! Before HRT, I had constant hot flushes and by that I mean at least a couple every hour, every day. Night sweats, alopecia patches, extreme tiredness, weepy, recurring thrush and severe vaginal dryness (no-one tells you about the utter misery and agony of this particular menopause symptom!).
I worried myself silly for months about taking HRT, because of the 'risks' and now I just wish I hadn't put up with it all for so long because taking it has changed my life dramatically.
My GP was clear, at 44 and with test confirming I was definately in early menopause, she recommended strongly that I take it. I should have these hormones anyway at my age, and not having them carried far more risks. My grandmother and Mum both suffer severe osteoporosis, losing inches in height and suffering so much pain through disintegrating vertebrae, my Mum had to use a wheelchair from her early sixties, and also had a quadruple heart bypass before she was 60. My GP thinks this was because my Mum went through a very early menopause and did not have HRT, and that this could be my future too without replacing the hormones I needed at my age. Of course, I am aware of the other risks of HRT, but I check my breasts and go to the GP for regular follow ups and blood pressure checks.
I feel so much better, my hair is growing back, I'm not anxious and have more energy, I sleep like a log, the flushes disappeared with the first week of HRT, and I have a sex life! Hurrah! 