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This week my ex hates me because...

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surlycurly · 07/08/2018 21:20

Just thought some of you might want to play this game with me...

This week my ex hates me because I won't collect our children from his wedding reception. Too weird for me I'm afraid than to poo in and collect them with all the same guests from our wedding there Grin.

Last week he hated me because I was annoyed that he's moving to Norway and I only found out through the kids. I may have mentioned that I wasn't very happy about finding out that way.

Why does your ex hate you this week?

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Pixikitten0123 · 24/08/2018 22:12

The cheeky bastard 😳

Pixikitten0123 · 24/08/2018 22:13

Mine’s gone very quiet - was supposed to be contacting his solicitor about contact with the kids a fortnight ago... heard nothing yet...

ProseccoandPizza · 24/08/2018 22:24

DS father hates me as he received C100 papers with the reasons why my DS refuses to see him and hasn’t since July. Inc witnessing verbal abuse of ex’s then partner and him push her over in front of DS(7)

Recent ex hates me because I called 999 last night after he took a blow torch to my parents hedge because I wouldn’t go outside for him to shout at me for the second time last night.

SerialThriller · 25/08/2018 07:01

This week my ex hates me because I won't give me more money and he will have to get a job, move house and take responsibility for his own life.

I am pissed with him for (despite pleading poverty), he wants me to set plans for next years summer holidays so he can book his holiday for next year that he currently has no means of paying for, but he is booking anyway. Face. Palm. I give up!

SerialThriller · 25/08/2018 07:02

I mean "I won't give HIM more money" obviously Grin

Cockapoomummy · 25/08/2018 07:20

This week, my ex’s ex wife hates me and refused to allow me to go to his funeral because he killed himself.

She was an ex wife before me, no I wasn’t the OW they had been divorced about 5 years when we got together and he had another partner at the time he died.

We were friends and had stayed friends, but she allowed his current partner to the funeral, but she didn’t allow me or his best friend to the funeral. No idea why.

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surlycurly · 25/08/2018 17:12

This week he hates me for not insisting my son goes to his. He told my 11 year old he 'ruined everyone's weekend' the last time and so he's voting with his feet and not going this time. I can't blame him.

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ZoeSusan · 26/08/2018 02:15

My ex hates me this week because he's getting emergency taxed at work. Wished me dead so he could have the kids full time 🙄🙄

PerverseConverse · 31/08/2018 12:08

.....because my solicitor isn't allowing him to bully him and demand things which aren't in the court order Grin

Ellen7262 · 01/09/2018 17:19

My ex hates me this week because after 18 months of sweet fuck all I have decided our DD deserves child support from him, whether he wants to see her or not. You will contribute towards her new shoes goddamnit.

PerverseConverse · 01/09/2018 17:28

My ex has lots of reasons to hate me lately Grin for starters he has GOT to allow the divorce to proceed and this means a court application as he won't provide financial information willingly. My solicitor is also ignoring his frequent emails wanting last minute contact requests and other such nonsense.

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surlycurly · 02/09/2018 13:44

This week it's because I won't pay for half the school trip he committed DD to go to, despite me saying no because I'm buying a new house 🙄

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HairyAntoinette · 02/09/2018 13:53

My ex hates me this week because I don't want to be friends. After he did something which previously put me in hospital and he promised he'd never do it again. Thankfully obviously I didn't end up in hospital this time - but he's shown me straight up that my well-being means little. Friends my arse.

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surlycurly · 02/09/2018 20:24

@HairyAntoinette oh my!!!! I hope you're ok...?

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HairyAntoinette · 03/09/2018 17:09

I don't want to say exactly what happened - but just need to stress not him beating me!

It's his birthday this week so I'll encourage the kids to get something "bland" and I've managed to get some wrapping paper with CUNT written all over it. So that'll probably be why he hates me next week. I held back on the toilet brush although I thought it the perfect gift.

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surlycurly · 06/09/2018 06:15

GrinGrinGrin well I'm sure he will be delighted. It must be the week for it. I've just bought an apartment and am going to sell the massive trampoline he bought my son without discussing it with me. 17 1/2 feet always felt excessive and now that's the same size as the out door space I have in total. I'll keep the money to help us move. He's going to be furious.

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rightknockered · 07/09/2018 00:27

Because I won't change my weekend plans to accommodate his as usual last minute contact request. And I'm refusing to give him information about new man I've been seeing. Because I bought the children new trainers and they're nicer than his 🙄

rightknockered · 07/09/2018 00:31

Every time I say no to something he responds with 'why, is it because of your new boyfriend?' I don't bother to answer and get sweary angry texts

weekendninja · 07/09/2018 13:02

My ex hates me because I am spending more on my one DS's birthday present than I did on the other DS earlier this year. It's my money and it's also swings and roundabouts. Plus, I'll spend what little I have on what I see fit. Both boys are perfectly happy, grounded and realistic about money.

We're dividing equity for our settlement. Looks like I need a 60/40 split to get the mortgage in my sole name. He sees it as grossly unfair despite earning almost double, me not touching his pension and being married for what felt like an eternity.

Oh, and my partner of almost a year took the kids and I away for a summer holiday. We are now living the 'high life' according to him.

I could go on and on but basically, if we do anything that is fun or that he hasn't thought of he's not happy.

I'm sorry that you're all going through this too.

PerverseConverse · 07/09/2018 14:40

Because I've removed his control over a few things. His response is to threaten me with court. Same old, same old.

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surlycurly · 07/09/2018 16:38

I could have written that post @weekendninja. I work full time but if I go on holiday I'm a money grabbing cow that's taking the food out of his mouth. He wants me and the kids broke and miserable. He earns three times what I do but because he's terrible with money, he's always broke and miserable.

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HowamIgoingtocope · 08/09/2018 00:01

He doesn't like the schools I am supporting my son on. .
Oh he's decided to do something at Christmas because I requested a change in plans.

HowamIgoingtocope · 08/09/2018 00:02

Oh generally he just hates me for being me and threatens to take the kids off me.

HairyAntoinette · 08/09/2018 15:50

This week he hates me because I still refuse to brush things under the carpet. As I strode back to the car I heard the squeaks of 'just text me or call me... We're both adults".

"There is literally nothing left to say".

I centrally locked and drove off.

At that point the cunt wrapping paper had not been discovered. Should drive that point home though.

eve34 · 09/09/2018 08:01

Because I keep asking for money

School uniform

School residential

Scout trip.

He earns twice as
Much as I do. Lives in a rented room and shares the cost of this. Whilst I maintain the roof our our children's head. Yes it is
My assets but they are our children.

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