Where are all the nice men

[oscarthegrouch]

My friends all seem to have hit on lucky with their partners it's making me feel lonely!

Are there any nice men left? I never seem to meet any

[AmIthatTinselly]

Lookin Not sure if I got the desired effect. I did what you said and was somewhat shocked to realise that the tears were streaming down my cheeks when I was visualising.

I filled two sides of A4 and smiled as I wrote each one down.

Now I just have to wait and see what happens

[niceupthedance]

Have been lurking on this thread as I too would like to meet a nice man, after 4 years happily single.

I placed a cosmic order a couple of weeks ago - and I think something is happening! Seriously, someone who (on paper) sounds like my ideal man has asked me on a date. Only problem is that he lives 100 miles away. But can't have everything.

So yes, get ordering!

[NotWankinginaWinterWonderland]

2 A4 sides

Is this one man? [frgin]

[NotWankinginaWinterWonderland]

sorry my fingers are still pissed

[NotWankinginaWinterWonderland]

Maybe I need paper for my flooring? I was just visualizing nice floors, not here yet.....my room did get changed round though, I like it better now...my back is sore-ish though.

[Lookingatclouds]

That is actually a great reaction AmIthattinselly. Tears are really good - they were clearing away stuff you were holding onto that needed to go. I wept buckets when I did mine!! What is reallly good is that you smiled as you wrote what you wanted - you were really starting to feel it. Well done!!

That's great news niceup. Keep us posted on that one, and even if it isn't him, there will be a reason for him popping up.

Any other progress reports? Amithatscary and Mama??

Keep going NotW .... try cutting out a picture of what you'd like and putting it somewhere that you can see it. I furnished my whole house like this. Either by putting images up or writing a little note to the universe. Do you know definitely what it is you want? Oh and just as my girls were telling me to go on Take Me Out I needed a boyfriend, my man appeared! Your kids are onto something!!

[NotWankinginaWinterWonderland]

I now have pictures on my fridge (always in the fridge for something) no men yet, just flooring.

Oh I seen a man last night, some people last year tried to 'get us together' I was mortified anyway ignored him from then on and was slipping about the park with my dog last night and who was there 'the man'

I stuttered a 'oh hi hello' then ran/slipped on ice lots away..... I have not been ordering a man, flooring first Mr Cosmic order person, get it right please. Flooring then man, possibly.

[Lookingatclouds]

But seeing him twice? The universe is trying to get your attention!! What does he do for a living? Maybe he's fits carpets and flooring .

[NotWankinginaWinterWonderland]

No something to do with diesel, he has 2 cars though, I could use one, my insurance just went us ... he kinda fits the bill, taller than me, dark hair, nice guy but I have known him since I was 10, I seen him viewing me on a dating website, I think we both cringed, nothing was said, he logged off and so did I.

My parents think I am nuts, I was at hospital with DS yesterday, they took us in as my driving in ice skills are the best, I had my picture of my flooring with me, explained what I was doing, they just said 'hmm yes very good' (whilst laughing @ me - I even gave Noel Edmond's a mention they love Deal or No Deal and I read about him doing this years ago)

Oh rubbish my Dad actually said 'would you like me to get it?' I said 'no I am cosmically ordering it' Oh wrong answer... that was my flooring, I need to backtrack.....What an eejit, the answer was yes thank you pay you back soon-ish....

[Lookingatclaus]

Eejit .... great word! And yes, I think that may have been a little window of opportunity opening for you there. Backtrack .... FAST!!

[NotWankinginaWinterWonderland]

on phone - to school - fucking furious - shouting at my son for not going to their fucking counselling

[AmIthatTinselly]

Looking I have spent all week reminding myself to be positive, and believing that it will happen.

Still nothing, does it take a while?

[GreenBurrito]

I'm not too sure if I believe all that cosmic ordering stuff, seems a tad bit out there for me. But then I've always found it hard to have faith in something I can't see.

Hey oscarthegrouch how've you been getting on?

My xp had given birth to a baby girl 2 weeks ago, I couldn't be happier!!
And I have even been able to see her daily since her birth, and also support both DD and xp during these early stages

[Mumfortoddler]

Ha ha ha that's it. I have decided. There is only one thing for it. Must start a single parent commune for monks and nuns. Anyone game?!!

[NotWankinginaWinterWonderland]

I have decided to become a Nun can I join please? My dc do not want '8a man in the house*, so that's that!

[NotWankinginaWinterWonderland]

a man in the house even ....