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July FET 2025

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waitingforourmiracle · 06/06/2025 10:33

Hey!!
Due to have my FET in July following my egg collection in April, I'm due to start norethisterone on Monday then patches so estimating my transfer to be mid-July!
Anyone else? 💛

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worldwidetravel2017 · 04/08/2025 11:04

waitingforourmiracle · 04/08/2025 10:14

I spoke to the clinic who suggested changing my pessaries from vaginally to rectally as it may of been irritation and they didn't seem to concerned but I think the amount of blood there was its more than that, I spoke to the EPU and they've booked me in for a scan a week today as they said any earlier there wouldn't be anything to see, I've tested this morning and the line looks lighter so I'm preparing for the worst to be honest, been absolutely devasted since 😪

Hope everyone is okay x

Could u not go for a private scan sooner?

How far are u now?

worldwidetravel2017 · 04/08/2025 11:07

I saw you said 7w4days aug 21st

If i was u - id get a private scan next Monday

waitingforourmiracle · 04/08/2025 11:07

I feel like they'll also say it's too early? I'm 5+1 today, how far was you when you was scanned? X

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worldwidetravel2017 · 04/08/2025 11:10

waitingforourmiracle · 04/08/2025 11:07

I feel like they'll also say it's too early? I'm 5+1 today, how far was you when you was scanned? X

6w 2 days and they saw a heart beat

But i was also scanned b4 that due to haematoma and they saw yolk sac , gestational sac etc

waitingforourmiracle · 04/08/2025 11:11

These are my tests, bottom one was this morning and the one above was either Friday or Saturday morning I’m not 100% sure but it’s definitely faded 😔

July FET 2025
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worldwidetravel2017 · 04/08/2025 11:12

waitingforourmiracle · 04/08/2025 11:11

These are my tests, bottom one was this morning and the one above was either Friday or Saturday morning I’m not 100% sure but it’s definitely faded 😔

I really wouldnt go by those

Sometimes its just our bodies being quirky
And / or what we drank / how long since we weed

Keep the hope

waitingforourmiracle · 04/08/2025 11:13

Thank you @worldwidetravel2017 xx

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worldwidetravel2017 · 04/08/2025 11:13

Also - if you have any history of loss - and as youve bled - you could show clinic tommys guidence and get more progesterone

Could u pay 4 progesterone blood test today or tomorrow

worldwidetravel2017 · 04/08/2025 11:14

Lotsa private clinics will progesterone blood test

SparklyMintBeaker · 04/08/2025 12:02

@waitingforourmiracle what time is your scan today?

waitingforourmiracle · 04/08/2025 12:24

@SparklyMintBeaker It's not till next Monday, they said they wouldn't see anything before the 6 week mark x

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SparklyMintBeaker · 04/08/2025 12:32

@waitingforourmiracle oh I see. Are you thinking of getting a private scan sooner?

waitingforourmiracle · 04/08/2025 12:34

@SparklyMintBeaker I don't know to be honest, given what the EPU said yesterday if I went for a scan earlier there wouldn't be anything to see and I don't know if it will just add more worry?? My head is all over the place today 😫

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SparklyMintBeaker · 04/08/2025 12:40

@waitingforourmiracle yeah I get how you feel totally. Can you ask your ivf clinic if they’d advise a scan at this stage?

waitingforourmiracle · 04/08/2025 12:49

@SparklyMintBeaker when I spoke to them yesterday they didn't seem concerned at all to be honest, she just said about changing the way I took my pessaries and to monitor x

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SparklyMintBeaker · 04/08/2025 12:51

@waitingforourmiracle that’s reassuring that they weren’t too concerned. How much progesterone are you on? x

waitingforourmiracle · 04/08/2025 13:04

@SparklyMintBeaker 800mg daily, I don't know if I should ask for bloods or not before Monday or if I just need to relax and wait and see what Monday brings x

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SparklyMintBeaker · 04/08/2025 13:16

@waitingforourmiracle It’s so hard to decide in these situations. I know it’s easier said than done but perhaps relax and wait till next Monday when you’ll get more definitive answers is better? What does your partner think? x

waitingforourmiracle · 04/08/2025 13:52

@SparklyMintBeaker he's been really good bless him, he also thinks we should see how I get on this week and get scanned on Monday, obviously if anything else happens we'll go to the EPU before then. How are you feeling x

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SparklyMintBeaker · 04/08/2025 14:02

@waitingforourmiracle I’m glad. Will keep praying for you x
I’m alright, nothing really noticeable other than sore and swollen boobs. I take naps during the day which completely mess up my night sleep but otherwise nothing really to note. My scan is on 23/8 so trying to get distracted till then xb

GamerGirl09 · 04/08/2025 15:30

@waitingforourmiracle Oh what a pain you have to wait. I did read to try and keep scans 1/2 weeks apart so I’d probably wait until next week but maybe get a blood test if that would put your mind at ease a bit more? Really hoping all is good 🤞🏼♥️ xx

GamerGirl09 · 04/08/2025 21:30

Pretty sure I’m out, been in a&e all night, lots of red blood and clots. Waiting for a gynae to see me and check if cervix open or closed but they said probs won’t be able to see anything on a scan so will have to come back in a couple days to confirm it’s over. If I’m not back to update you all then I wish you girls all the very best ♥️

FlatWhiteAnyone · 04/08/2025 22:47

@GamerGirl09sorry to read this update, just look after yourself 😢

I started having mild lower back pain and spotting, tested just now and strong positive 6dp5d (so much of not testing before the blood on Thursday). So not sure if this is also a chemical

waitingforourmiracle · 05/08/2025 09:34

@GamerGirl09 I'm so sorry, it truely is so unfair. I think I'm also out, my tests have faded even more this morning to practically how they were on the first day I tested. I've spoke to the EPU and they won't do bloods, she then said to cancel my scan on Monday and just test again in 2 weeks but I've said I want to keep the scan booked in for now but I'll monitor my test over the next few days. Sending you big big hugs ❤

@FlatWhiteAnyone wait to see what your bloods show on Thursday, hopefully it's good news x

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GamerGirl09 · 05/08/2025 09:52

@FlatWhiteAnyone@waitingforourmiracle thank you ♥️

So, weird one, was in a&e for about 7 hours - from 6pm til 1am and soaked a few pads with blood and was passing massive clots so we were pretty sure I was miscarrying. I had a blood test and a gynaecologist did an examination. The blood test came back with around 13,000 hCG which the gynaecologist said is a sign of a healthy growing pregnancy and he examined my cervix and said it’s closed which means I either passed the miscarriage at some point before seeing him or the pregnancy is still there 🤯 he said I would have to have a scan to find out and the next scan slot is Friday morning so basically in limbo until Friday morning not knowing if I’ve had a miscarriage or not. My head is absolutely f**ked. The amount of blood and clots I’ve had I can’t see how that wasn’t a miscarriage but my brain won’t let me grieve it yet because there’s still a chance according to the gynae 😭

@FlatWhiteAnyone that sounds fine, hope you get a good beta result

@waitingforourmiracle so sorry to hear that, really hoping it picks back up and you have a good scan xx