July FET 2025

[waitingforourmiracle]

Hey!!
Due to have my FET in July following my egg collection in April, I'm due to start norethisterone on Monday then patches so estimating my transfer to be mid-July!
Anyone else? 💛

@FlatWhiteAnyone ah I see! Hopefully the transfer comes round quick now and the wait doesn't seem to long! Keep us updated x

Thank you! I have never had a transfer before…so new anxiety for me 🫣

@FlatWhiteAnyone we also doing treatment abroad. I had bad experience in uk and we find clinic in Spain for donor eggs and they do 100% refund packages. We decided to go first round with my eggs so far 🙏🏻 scared to jinx

@Ks2023fingers crossed all will work! You definitely need to be ready for that additional step and new route. Are you testing the embryos? We had 10 good quality (well grading) with OE over 3 cycles, glad we tested as all uneuploid 😢 I had many mc as well. I still fall pregnant easily and produce lots of eggs (probably pcos) at 43, but no quality left

@FlatWhiteAnyone I had 6 misscarages in last 3 years. Failed ivf in UK. Positive IUI but lost baby at 10 weeks. No one wanted to take me in UK as my AMH very low and high FSH. In Spain I prepared for my ivf 6 months with loads of supplements, lost 3 stones as well. Collected 2 eggs only from 4 follicles, all 2 fertilised and transferred back on day 5 graded 5BA, 4AB didn’t wanna test just trying my luck, I’ll be 40 in January so not so young anymore. Today is 6dp5dt and I got my BFP it’s still very faint so waiting till Monday for my BETA 🙏🏻 if it’s not gonna work out we will try another go with my eggs and then we will go to donor eggs but I really praying now it’s gonna work. Infertility is horrible and lonely place. I can’t even get excited now, just told my husband I have 2 lines and he told me ok we will wait now our BETA no happy tears and kisses or cuddles like you would expect. We both scared. I just been thinking that it’s will be very hard 40 weeks in our life

Oh @Ks2023just sending virtual hugs, you went through a lot! Just remember one step at a time, just focus on present moment, you cannot control the future. Tentative congratulations on this milestone 🌼

@waitingforourmiracle BRAIN FOG IS REAL haha. Chose Ireland as I struggled to get under the BMI limit so was looking for a clinic that would accept slightly over 30 and found them, liked their vibe, prices decent and they had good success rates! I do think if we need to go again we’d probably look in the uk though as it has been a massive inconvenience (in the most grateful way ofc ♥️🤣) travelling for appts. My husband is very very guarded too. Had a bit of a chat with him tonight about feeling a bit alone with it and he’s explained he kinda came to terms it might never happen and he doesn’t want to allow himself to think otherwise as there’s still so many things to go wrong. And I get it, it’s so difficult isn’t it not even knowing what’s the best way to act and think of things - how happy can I be about it etc 😩😭

@Ks2023 tentative congratulations! Looks similar to mine at 6dpt and others I’d seen online. 6dpt is still really early. Check for progression every 48hrs (this is what I’m trying to do but understand your concerns because I’m worried about mine too - I think everyone going through this process will always be super concerned and apprehensive at every single stage). One hurdle at a time xx

@SparklyMintBeaker My beta is 11dp5dt which is Friday. Oh I’m crying at all sorts. I cried to my husband last night worried my lines might not get darker and I swear to god I am not a crier 🤣 from research, I decided to start testing at 3dp5dt because a very small amount of people get a + then and I thought if we did get a + at some point it might be nice to have a record of line progression. But from what I’ve read most people get + between 5dp5dt and 8. I was very negative pre-transfer and felt it wasn’t going to work for us (our first too) but I’ve been testing positive since Saturday 🤞🏼♥️ Best of luck for Thursday x

@FlatWhiteAnyone good luck for 29th! My god Covid restrictions? PTSD kicking in! So sorry to hear your partner can’t go in with you that really sucks xx

Unfortunately my lines gone very light nearly non existent so it’s a chemical for me 😢 we will start with donor eggs now 💔

@FlatWhiteAnyone ah the nerves I don't think ever go away!!

@Ks2023 I'm really sorry to hear that, sending big big hugs, hopefully beta will show a different result on Monday 💛

@GamerGirl09 Aw I totally get that too, I'm trying to convince him to let me test tomorrow but he's adamant we're waiting until Friday... I just need to know now!

I was shattered last night, I was almost falling asleep on the couch after work which is not like me at all, still no real symptoms though but it is still very early, I got like an ache lower down in my vagina though, has anyone else felt that?? I was cooking tea like ouchhhh that hurts 🙈I'm also putting down tiredness to possibly being a bit under the weather, my boyfriend was a little poorly last weekend and I don't know if I caught abit of that as I've had bit of a sore throat this week

@Ks2023please hold on till your official testing date, it is not over yet 🙏 Sending hugs and support

@Ks2023 so sorry to hear this. I really hope it’s just a fluke and pics up 🤞🏼♥️ but if not wishing you all the best for your next cycle

Good morning ladies, so I caved and tested 6DP5DT and here we are 🥹❤️ lots of happy, scared, nervous, excited tears this morning. It’s so hard to feel just excitement when we’ve been through this stage before and it was a very sad outcome. We’re prayed for this one to be a beautiful ending xx

@waitingforourmiracle congratulations!! Such lovely news although I know what you mean about finding it hard to get too excited. Previous loss definitely robs you of that as you're all too aware of what can go wrong. But I just keep reminding myself this is a different embryo and it's a different protocol.

@Ks2023 sorry to hear your lines are getting fainter, such a cruel journey. Hopefully you get a definitive answer at your beta Monday so you know your next steps.

Girls please help me out I don’t know what to do. My tests was non existent second line yesterday and I started bleeding, some brown spotting first with some brown egg white cm, then some dark red blood, still bleeding now but it’s not much, just did the test and my line is come back? What’s going on? Clinic told me to wait till Monday regardless and do the tests again 😩

@waitingforourmiracle congratulations hun ❤️

@FancyGoose thank you, that's a really good way to think of it!

@Ks2023 this must be so confusing!! 😥 I wish I had some advice but all I can say is we're all praying for you xx

@waitingforourmiracle aaaaaarggghhgghghgghhgghh congrats mama! ♥️♥️♥️♥️ so happy for you 🥹🥹 hoping for a beautiful line progression for you 🤞🏼♥️

@Ks2023 I’m so sorry, I can only imagine how you’re feeling and it’s so cruel you have to wait over the weekend for answers 😭 is there no way you can get a beta today or tomorrow? So sorry I don’t know what else you can do. Maybe just speak to the clinic again and explain how worried you are etc? We’re all here for you xx

Very happy 4 u

Thank you both @GamerGirl09 @worldwidetravel2017

Nerves are real 😖I'm really contemplating paying for a private beta test!

NHS may do it if u explain anxiety

@worldwidetravel2017 I think I'm going to ask the question, my GP was really rude last time I spoke to them about bloods because I was going to start IVF privately. She actually wrote on my notes they won't do anything related to this going forward!

You can ask to see a diff gp

Can also ask to speak to practice manager

@waitingforourmiracle that’s horrendous. I was worried my GP wouldn’t but they have! They let me do pre-ivf blood tests and beta but I darent ask them for a second beta appt 🤣 but to write on your notes we won’t do it - that’s awful. Agree with worldwide - diff gp or practice manager.

@worldwidetravel2017 Hope your pregnancy is progressing well and the haematoma isn’t causing too many issues?