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Tww fet

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Magic2023 · 23/05/2023 10:30

Good morning, we are on day 6 of a 5 day blast transfer. Our first one, and refrained from testing so far, our clinic wants 12 day test and bloods on the same day. Anyone else in the same boat?
Im very bloated and been having cramps on and off from day 2, but mainly on one side. Not sure if thats normal 🙈

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CaribbeanCupcake · 23/05/2023 18:33

Hey!! Yeah I'm 7dpt and no symptoms at all! This is my first FET after my fresh one failed last year. Feeling calm at the moment but as the week goes on I'm gonna be 😭 how are you getting on in the tww?

Magic2023 · 23/05/2023 19:48

Ah sorry to hear that! Id find it easier with no symptoms i think! Im so so bloated and cramps that feel like someone is pushing one finger on a certain area, untill i move then it goes!
Its such a hard wait isnt it! Im ok, just very impatient!

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CaribbeanCupcake · 23/05/2023 21:24

Haha yeah same here wayyy too impatient! I guess with symptoms you never know if it's pregnant/ PMS or the drugs they've given you! The cramps sound strange tho- could be where it's implanted maybe? Fingers crossed!

Magic2023 · 23/05/2023 21:41

I know thats the problem with ivf! Im hoping so! When is your test date? We are thinking of testing friday, just to soften the blow more than anything.

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CaribbeanCupcake · 23/05/2023 22:41

My OTD is Monday and I've decided to wait til then as I'm working all weekend but then off work on the Monday so at least if it's bad news I'll be at home with dp. It's gonna be sooooo hard tho 🤣

Magic2023 · 23/05/2023 22:51

Thats some serious willpower! I def wont have as much! What grade was your emby? Mine was 4cc, from googling it doesnt sound too great!

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CaribbeanCupcake · 23/05/2023 23:26

I don't actually know, I asked and she said 2:2 but I can't find what this means- apparently they don't tell us as it's nhs funded? 🤷🏽‍♀️

Magic2023 · 24/05/2023 07:46

I think id rather not know the grading!

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CaribbeanCupcake · 24/05/2023 11:45

Yeah I guess it's one less thing to worry about 🤣

Magic2023 · 24/05/2023 15:25

How u doong today? Still refrained from testing? I have ordered 2 frers for tomorrow but the delivery man missed us 🙈

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CaribbeanCupcake · 24/05/2023 18:41

Not too bad, still no symptoms! Had a nap this afternoon but I think it's more tiredness in general than anything else! How you getting on?

Magic2023 · 25/05/2023 09:19

I love an afternoon nap! Well my other half went and got a clear blue 6 days early digi, and it was bfn this morning, and im only 7dpt, not 8 🙈 still crampy tho so i feel out!

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CaribbeanCupcake · 25/05/2023 09:43

It's still mega early tho and cramping isn't necessarily a bad thing! Test again in a few days!

Magic2023 · 25/05/2023 10:10

Thats true, ive had cramping since 2dpt. My frers should arrive today! Im just worried the clear blue wasnt accurate enough

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Ebonyeyes1234 · 25/05/2023 11:19

Hi ladies, I'm on day 9 post fresh transfer. Did a clear blue yesterday which was negative at the time, but when I looked later there was the palest line, but I know your not meant to trust this? My clinic have told me to test on day 14, which is next Tuesday. I have a blood test booked for that day. I has cramps day 3-6 and sore boots. I wouldn't wish this experience on my worst enemy. You are all brave for fighting this fight 💪 baby dust to you all.

Rosa x

Magic2023 · 25/05/2023 12:36

Hi @Ebonyeyes1234 we are in exactly the same boat! Apart from im 7days past a frozen transfer! Sore boobs are on and off though!

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CaribbeanCupcake · 25/05/2023 14:09

Hey @Ebonyeyes1234 I'm 9dp frozen transfer! OTD Monday. Haha it's awful isn't it 😩 the longest 2 weeks in the world. Is this your first go at IVF?

Ebonyeyes1234 · 25/05/2023 14:27

Magic2023 · 25/05/2023 12:36

Hi @Ebonyeyes1234 we are in exactly the same boat! Apart from im 7days past a frozen transfer! Sore boobs are on and off though!

Tbh some days the boobs are worse than others.

Ebonyeyes1234 · 25/05/2023 14:28

CaribbeanCupcake · 25/05/2023 14:09

Hey @Ebonyeyes1234 I'm 9dp frozen transfer! OTD Monday. Haha it's awful isn't it 😩 the longest 2 weeks in the world. Is this your first go at IVF?

Yes this in my first cycle.

Ebonyeyes1234 · 25/05/2023 14:28

Did you ladies have your treatment in the UK or abroad?

CaribbeanCupcake · 25/05/2023 14:35

Mine was UK. This is my second time- 1st was a fresh and it failed 😞 had 3 Frosties tho so this is first FET.

Ebonyeyes1234 · 25/05/2023 14:40

I'm so sorry you first attempt fail, but it's good news you have 3 frozen embryo. Hopefully this will be the time that works for you. I have 1 frozen.

Magic2023 · 25/05/2023 15:16

Stark white 🙄

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Ebonyeyes1234 · 25/05/2023 15:26

It's early yet, particularly if it was a frozen cycle, hoping there will be a change for you in the coming days. I'm not going to test again until day 10.

CaribbeanCupcake · 25/05/2023 15:30

@Magic2023 you're still too early! I would wait til at least 10dpt x