Tww fet

[Magic2023]

Good morning, we are on day 6 of a 5 day blast transfer. Our first one, and refrained from testing so far, our clinic wants 12 day test and bloods on the same day. Anyone else in the same boat?
Im very bloated and been having cramps on and off from day 2, but mainly on one side. Not sure if thats normal 🙈

Im hoping its just too early 🤞 do fets take longer?

@Magic2023 I have hear they do, it can take longer for the embryo to implant.

Well yesterday when i was drivibg i had a sharp stabbing pain that made me gasp a little but im sure day 6 is too late to implant!

@Magic2023 no I don't think it's too late? I read that you don't get a positive til 10dpt

@Magic2023 I have heard it can take up to 5 days. So there is certainly still a chance of you testing positive.

Fingers crossed then! Hoping for some sort of miracle. Im 39 and its our first ever transfer but only 1 frozen after this then we cant afford to do anymore ☹️

Aww @Magic2023 I feel you, I'm 38 and once our embryos are gone we won't be doing anymore ☹️ I know it's hard but try not to worry at this stage- you really have tested too early. Try and stay strong now until at least 10dpt but longer if you can! I'm here with you, we can do it together ❤️

Ah thank you, im trying 👍

I'm in a similar boat. I'm 44 and the covid pandemic took my chance of treatment with my own egg on the NHS, as by the time it was over I has low ovarian reserve so was no longer eligible for treatment. So we saved for donor egg treatment as this was our best chance, but we can only afford this round. We went to reprofit clinic in the Czech Republic.

@Ebonyeyes1234 wow that sounds tough. Sending sooooo many positive vibes your way, really hoping you get your baba 🥰

That sounds like a rubbish situation to be in! I pray it works for you!! 🥰

Again bfn, not even a hint of anything! I def feel out now 🙄

Ahh you caved! You're still too early, it doesn't mean anything yet. You wouldn't get a positive at 7dpt there isn't enough hcg!
I'm starting to think I'm out now- not a single symptom i just feel exactly the same as every other month 😞

I'm 10 dpt today and a bfn :-( sending you ladies hugs, this is so hard.

Im 8dp5dt now, and really starting to doubt this has worked. No symptoms can be good though! @Ebonyeyes1234 im sorry this is so shit!

@Magic2023 thank you, try and keep hope a little longer, things could still come good for you.

Aww girls I hope you're both ok. It could still happen for both, I'm gonna be hoping so hard for both of you xxx

How is everyone this morning? I havent tested today, cant face another bfn. My oh wants to wait till tuesday now for the beta blood test because he thinks im getting too upset for no reason. Ive been googling like mad for people getting positives after a negative at 8 days past! Not many but a few!

We to have decided to wait until Tuesday - day of blood test. I'm fed up with being so upset each time I do a test. I'm thinking of you both and still keeping everything crossed for all of us x

Morning @Magic2023 aww bless you, this 2 weeks is the longest ever isn't it. You could defo still get a positive, I get what your oh if saying. Maybe you need to take a break from the testing and googling. Have you got any nice plans for the weekend?
I'm feeling pretty rubbish this morning. Woke up feeling like I really wanted to test but I have work all weekend and if I get a bfn I'll be good to no one so we agreed would stick to OTD as I'm off. But I'm pretty convinced I'm out now. I don't have a single symptom and just feel exactly as I normally would. Had a big cry last night so just gonna try and forget about it today (ha like it's that easy)

Morning @Ebonyeyes1234 ahh yeah good idea to wait til OTD, you could still get a positive too. I have everything crossed for you. Have you got any nice plans for the weekend to keep you busy? I'm thinking of you too, big hugs x

@CaribbeanCupcake when is your test date? 11dpt is a day that crops up alot for bfps. Its probably a good idea. My cramping seems to be worse at night, but its been a constant since 2nd day of transfer and mainly 1 side. The only thing that keeps me going was mine was technically a 6dt as it was slow growing so maybe its doing the same still 🤷‍♀️ who knows. Its so hard. My oh is working all weekend so gonna be hard for me to keep busy!

OTD is Monday. I think cramping is a good sign tho? Aww get yourself out to the shops for some retail therapy! Chose something nice to by IF it doesn't work out to cheer you up x

So we should all know in the next 2/3 days for definite! My cramping is worse when im sitting, and pretty much goes when im up and about, and still the same dull cramps on my left side since the start!

Yeah just a few more days. I can't wait to be put out of my misery 😔
Do they feel like period pains or different?