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110 replies

Magic2023 · 23/05/2023 10:30

Good morning, we are on day 6 of a 5 day blast transfer. Our first one, and refrained from testing so far, our clinic wants 12 day test and bloods on the same day. Anyone else in the same boat?
Im very bloated and been having cramps on and off from day 2, but mainly on one side. Not sure if thats normal 🙈

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HSingh15 · 29/05/2023 09:04

Good luck @Magic2023 and @CaribbeanCupcake for tomorrow
Sending loads of baby dust your way xx

CaribbeanCupcake · 29/05/2023 09:30

@Magic2023 yeah sooo dark! No eye squinting for it at all, and came up straight away!
Good luck for tomorrow, I have everything crossed for you and will be thinking of you xxx

Ebonyeyes1234 · 29/05/2023 09:31

@HSingh15 I'm sure if you slipped and landed on your bottom you will be fine, try not to worry. I get cramps if I go to move quickly when I'm laying down, if I cough or sneeze, no idea what that means. When do you have your blood test?

HSingh15 · 29/05/2023 09:35

@Ebonyeyes1234
thank you! Just so worried - I just don’t want anything to go wrong 😩

from the knowledge I have mastered from google😂 - cramping is a good sign 😆

to be honest with you, I’ve just been asked to take a test at home on 5th (a week from now 😎) no idea about the blood test, however my clinic did say to inform them of test results and they will inform of next action 🤔

Ebonyeyes1234 · 29/05/2023 09:36

@CaribbeanCupcake @Magic2023 thank you. We will test in the morning tomorrow before going to the Drs, I'm not sure how soon I will get the results of the blood test. I honestly think the TWW is the worst part of the process.

Magic2023 · 29/05/2023 10:50

@Ebonyeyes1234 its 100% the worst part! I didnt believe it when people said its the worst bit but this week is killing me! Especially since i got a negative at 8 days past, think its put me in a down spiral of emotions!

@CaribbeanCupcake guess thats better than squinting for days on end! Thats such great news! Thank u. We need all the baby dust we can get x

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Magic2023 · 30/05/2023 05:04

Done a hpt this morning and bfn im 12dp5dt and got beta today so dissapointed ☹️

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CaribbeanCupcake · 30/05/2023 06:01

@Magic2023 aww I'm so sorry my love 😔 I'm gutted for you. Take some time out to come to terms with it and be kind to yourself. The clinic should be able to answer any questions you have a book a follow up appointment- we found it really helped when ours failed last year. Thinking of you xx

Magic2023 · 30/05/2023 06:21

Its all the symptoms thats got me, so confusing!!

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Ebonyeyes1234 · 30/05/2023 07:00

@Magic2023 I'm so sorry to hear this, I was so hoping for a positive for you, this is so hard. I'm in pretty much the same position 14dpt bfn. Off for the blood test this morning x

Magic2023 · 30/05/2023 08:27

Im sorry to hear that! So shit ☹️ im secretly hoping for a positive beta but i know that hpt is 99% correct!

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CaribbeanCupcake · 30/05/2023 11:21

Oh @Ebonyeyes1234 I'm sorry 😞 everything I said to @Magic2023 further down. Thinking of you xx

Magic2023 · 30/05/2023 15:04

@Ebonyeyes1234 any news. Beta was negative as we thought 🙄 so gutted x

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Ebonyeyes1234 · 31/05/2023 08:43

@Magic2023 I had the blood test done at the GP, so probably a couple of days for me to get the results. So sorry to hear your news. Have you thought about next steps?

HSingh15 · 31/05/2023 12:23

Ebonyeyes1234 · 31/05/2023 08:43

@Magic2023 I had the blood test done at the GP, so probably a couple of days for me to get the results. So sorry to hear your news. Have you thought about next steps?

Hello @Ebonyeyes1234
I work in a GP surgery and we send bloods off by midday and most results come back by 3pm or sometimes 4pm - if you want, give your GP surgery a call later on to check the progress and if they haven’t received it, they can email the lab and once back - the results should appear on your NHS app xx

HSingh15 · 31/05/2023 12:24

Magic2023 · 30/05/2023 15:04

@Ebonyeyes1234 any news. Beta was negative as we thought 🙄 so gutted x

I am so sorry to hear 😔please take good rest and care of yourself xx

Ebonyeyes1234 · 01/06/2023 12:02

@Magic2023 Blood test was negative😪

@HSingh15 How are things going for you?

HSingh15 · 01/06/2023 12:09

Ebonyeyes1234 · 01/06/2023 12:02

@Magic2023 Blood test was negative😪

@HSingh15 How are things going for you?

@Ebonyeyes1234 i am a so sorry to hear that, please take good rest of yourself

to be honest with you, I have no idea what’s happening with my body, my emotions are all over the place, haven’t done any housework, taken time off work - my symptoms come and go - I’m just very stressed to be honest xx

Ebonyeyes1234 · 01/06/2023 14:22

@HSingh15 what day post transfer are you now? When do you need to test?

HSingh15 · 01/06/2023 14:25

Ebonyeyes1234 · 01/06/2023 14:22

@HSingh15 what day post transfer are you now? When do you need to test?

My transfer was Thurs 25th - so a week now I’m due to test on Monday - so anxious 😩

Ebonyeyes1234 · 02/06/2023 18:36

@HSingh15 keeping everything crossed for you, please keep us posted.

@Magic2023 How are you holding up? I have been very tearful.

@CaribbeanCupcake hope everything is progressing well for you.

XOXO

CaribbeanCupcake · 02/06/2023 20:18

@Ebonyeyes1234 aww I hope you're ok lovely. I have been in your position last year with a negative and if broke me so I know the hell you're going through and nothing anyone can say or do will make you feel better. Have you got a follow up appointment arranged with the clinic? Sending lots of love your way and thinking of you xxx

Ebonyeyes1234 · 03/06/2023 09:02

@CaribbeanCupcake My husband has contacted the clinic and they are going to start looking at my protocol for next time. We will be going back in August to have our second embryo transferred. This is our last one. Did you achieve success on your second transfer? X

Magic2023 · 04/06/2023 14:38

He sorry been mia, started af 3 days ago and still waiting for a big bleed....its pretty light so im not sure whats going on, was expected all hell to break loose but it hasnt.
Im sorry sorry to hear it was negative @Ebonyeyes1234 so gutted for you.
We are going to have a consult at the end of the week. Only have 1 embryo left so its looking like our last chance.

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CaribbeanCupcake · 04/06/2023 16:35

@Ebonyeyes1234 that's good at least you have a plan! Yeah so my first try was a fresh cycle and that failed, then this one was frozen and caught.
How are you feeling today?