@VenusStarr yeah a bit like NK, not sure how much like it but bother are immune issues. My husband said to me, do they really talk to the rich patients like this? It made me think. I have no idea if they do, but I just feel drained and want a doctor who empathises and listens, but that’s too much to ask.
@Gardenlady543 about me or SH? We’ve simultaneously been seeing the Lister and Guys so I guess we’ve had second opinions in that way, not formally sought out. The thing is we know the issues with DH and what they need to do now, and now it’s just a case of finding a new protocol for me or returning to the one that worked (150 gonal F) but I feel like I can’t say to my doctor “no, we aren’t carrying on, we’re abandoning and trying again next month”. Someone tell me this is fine???? I can tell them no, can’t I? If I go in tomorrow and there’s still very few growers, I can just pull the plug and say let’s stop, pay the damage and try again next time? I feel so browbeaten by this entire experience but I really can’t afford to pay for another scan and two trigger meds if tomorrow’s is looking bad.
Glad you’re looking like a FET is back on the cards and the plan has worked.
@kerrym87 thank you. I’m sorry the EC is so painful for you, I hope it goes as well as these things can.
@VenusStarr 60g of protein per day (apparently) and lots of water would be my tips, but what do I know, mine don’t want to grow either :/
@Faithhopelove83 thanks! I’m tied in with them for this cycle so want to get it right. I could cancel tomorrow if I’m entitled to do that, and maybe switch doctors but I have no idea which one would be good. I feel like all the doctor reviews are by people who have had successful outcomes. He’s not done a lot wrong, it’s just a case of sticking to the more, more, more stims playbook and giving me sharp responses at times when I could do with something more reassuring.