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Another hand hold needed

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Pleaseletitbeme · 05/08/2021 18:19

After 3 miscarriages, 6 ETs and a bill of over £70,000 I honestly thought we’d cracked this IVF shit.
Yesterday (6dp5t) I Got a BFP.
Today I shave mild irregular cramping and passed a small pink jelly blob of mucous (half a head of a q tip) and a string of brown mucous-2cm long thickness of a thread…
Give me some hope guys. We had 2 5AAs transferred.

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IslandStars · 05/08/2021 18:56

@Pleaseletitbeme I so hope this works out for you, what a horrible journey you’ve been on. Congrats on the BFP. The discharge you describe sounds like implantation bleeding to me, because it’s brown and stringy. I have no experience as I’m still trying, but don’t rule it out yet. Keep testing. Good luck!

Betsyboo87 · 05/08/2021 20:01

Hand hold for you here too! If it’s any reassurance, I had the same. It continued everyday (and sometimes turned red) until 8 weeks and then disappeared and I had a textbook pregnancy. My clinic were really relaxed about it and I really wasn’t! Try to stay positive, I know how hard it is though.

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Pleaseletitbeme · 05/08/2021 20:14

Thank you both.
Xxx

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greendress789 · 05/08/2021 21:15

Good luck 💐💐💐

Lemongrass1 · 05/08/2021 23:23

@Pleaseletitbeme I had similar with the pinky brown mucous blob and at a similar timeframe to you after a double blast transfer and had a healthy DC. You’ve been through so much and I really have my fingers crossed for you that everything works out. xxx

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Pleaseletitbeme · 05/08/2021 23:48

Thanks so much.
I really need positivity.
I’ve still got weird cramping that’s fairly low grade but persistent.
Hopefully it will be fine in the morning
Flowers

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whatagloriousthingtobe · 06/08/2021 08:34

Sending positive vibes your way 🤞🏻🤞🏻

2mumlife · 06/08/2021 11:03

@Pleaseletitbeme I had my first every BFP at 6dp5dt and had brown watery discahrge for couple of days. Mine was a chemical pregnancy though.

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Pleaseletitbeme · 08/08/2021 19:55

Update….
Haven’t had a lot of pain like my miscarriage at 4 weeks. But today have passed a small 5p sized clot and probably about a teaspoon of fresh red blood. Minimal pain though.
Game over again I guess
Waiting to hear back from my clinic tomorrow

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2mumlife · 09/08/2021 07:45

@Pleaseletitbeme Fingers crossed for you Flowers

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Pleaseletitbeme · 09/08/2021 09:16

Have to attend for a beta today and Wednesday. Have continued mild cramping and brown discharge

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greendress789 · 09/08/2021 18:40

How did your beta go @Pleaseletitbeme?

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Pleaseletitbeme · 09/08/2021 18:48

Hi,
So they did bloods for progesterone and beta hcg.
The nurse said that if the results are back tomorrow they will let me know what they are.

I feel so weird.
I can’t even say I have any cramping…. It’s the most bizarre sensation… I do feel that things could “let go” and any minute. I’ve got a clear discharge with brown speckles in it.
Back Wednesday afternoon for the repeat.
At the moment I’ve either had a random bleed or I’m brewing a MC.
I’ve had the full spectrum in my other three miscarriages and this is so different.
I’m so tired of the awfulness of ivf.

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whatagloriousthingtobe · 09/08/2021 18:52

I'm keeping my 🤞🏻 for you. It's so awful being in that limbo stage I really feel for you

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Pleaseletitbeme · 09/08/2021 22:38

Thank you. Just taking the time makes a huge difference

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greendress789 · 09/08/2021 23:42

Keeping my fingers crossed for you 🤞

2mumlife · 10/08/2021 07:35

@Pleaseletitbeme That's really tough you needed to wait overnight for results. Hopefully they get back to you quickly so you'll know where you stand

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Pleaseletitbeme · 10/08/2021 14:26

No news as to what my first blood is- I know it’s more important after the second one so attend can be established. But it would just be good to know.
I’ve got no real pain yet but still have a very small amount brown stringy material with a faint light very very paw brown discharge.
The discomfort I have feels like some one rolling a pencil round in my left side. It’s the strangest sensation.
I just wish it was over as I’m so scared to leave the house after my previous MCs

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shazzz1xx · 10/08/2021 19:17

🌺

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Pleaseletitbeme · 11/08/2021 16:07

Went for second bloods today.
I’m 13dp5dt.
My HCG was 300 and my progesterone level is in the normal range.
So I just have to wait and see if it’s going up or coming down.
Humph.

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shazzz1xx · 11/08/2021 18:00

I think that’s a good number mine was 205 at something like 12dp3dt x

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Pleaseletitbeme · 11/08/2021 18:12

Please tell me your story Shazz..if you feel able to.
Xxx

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Littlemissnc · 11/08/2021 18:52

What was the first Hcg result? If it doubled between that and this one it’s good news

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Pleaseletitbeme · 11/08/2021 19:06

Hi this was my first, just had second today. Wont get results until tomorrow or Friday.
I know it’s the trend that’s important…

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Lemongrass1 · 11/08/2021 23:09

@Pleaseletitbeme mine was 143 @13dp5dt and 326 @15dp5dt if it helps to have a comparison

Have my fingers crossed for you, hope the next result is promising. X