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IVF August/September cycle buddies

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foodiefil · 01/06/2021 17:46

Starting this thread early!

We've just booked for our second round to start August 2nd with egg collection September 8th.

I was on the Jan/Feb thread earlier this year.

Come join me :)

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2mumsandason · 17/09/2021 11:23

Just home from EC - all went well. I'm a bit sore at the moment but hopefully that will ease off soon! They collected 7 eggs and they call in the morning to let me know how many have fertilised 🤞

Good luck for your EC today @ngy21 and @Novavee! x

Gensola · 17/09/2021 12:21

Had another faint line (definitely visible) on a FRER after holding my wee for 4 hours, but so faint I don’t really trust it. Clinic have said they’re taking it as a positive and have booked me for a scan on 2 Oct Confused but I really don’t think it’s a BFP

SerendipitySunshine · 17/09/2021 12:26

Mine were like that @gensola then they got darker. I'm having my scan next week. Fingers crossed for you.

beachbum85 · 17/09/2021 13:08

That's pretty exciting @Gensola, although I can understand the apprehension... Keep testing every couple of days, hopefully the lines will get darker and darker!! Wishing you luck xx

@2mumsandason excellent, glad it all went smoothly :) I hope you feel better soon and fingers crossed for tomorrow's fertilisation update!

@foodiefil glad you're better :)

@99pctpractice good to hear you've got a plan and you can try again soon! Our clinic had the same idea: try get more eggs to increase the chances. In the end we got fewer eggs but more better quality ones, so it helped just the same, although obviously we still have to see if this one sticks! Fingers crossed for you :) xx

Gensola · 17/09/2021 14:04

@SerendipitySunshine mine really are so faint - when did yours start to darken? I can’t really believe it given I’m 11dp5dt now, the lines should be darker I think?

SerendipitySunshine · 17/09/2021 14:13

I was 11dp5dt for test day and they looked similar to yours there. About 48 hours later they got darker and are now as dark as the control line. When I did a clearblue weeks test OTD it said 2-3 weeks, even though it was pale.

Gensola · 17/09/2021 15:05

Thanks @SerendipitySunshine - I hope mine darken up then! Smile

beachbum85 · 17/09/2021 15:59

Thinking of you @ngy21 and @Novavee and hoping everything went smoothly for you today xx

@2mumlife did you get an update today? If so, hope it was a positive one!

Novavee · 17/09/2021 16:49

Thanks @beachbum85 @2mumsandason

EC went well. Best nap ever! Although I am a little sore and uncomfortable.
We have 9 eggs, so we are very happy with the result.

@2mumsandason i'm so happy for you and keeping everything crossed for your call tomorrow.

I heard from the embryologist today and after a bit of a scare that the sperm hadn't thawed well, they prepared it again and got great numbers, so we are going ahead with ivf and will also get a call tomorrow morning.

@ngy21 i hope all went well with your EC.

Gensola · 17/09/2021 16:59

@Novavee that’s great! I also love the sedation, I think I could get used to it Grin hope you start to feel more comfortable soon.

2mumlife · 17/09/2021 17:11

@Gensola Can you get a beta to check your HCG levels? Faint lines can indicate a chemical. Definitely check in 48 hours (using the same test brands) to check your HCG levels are going up

@beachbum85 Spent all afternoon waiting for call but everything's going well so have. 4 of the embabies are at 8 cells, 1 at 10 cells and 1 speedy little one is "showing off" as the embryologist put it and has started to compact early. Day 5 is Sunday and my clinic aren't actually open so I won't get a call until Monday to let us know what been frozen. So a long weekend of not knowing ahead!

Gensola · 17/09/2021 17:15

@2mumlife my clinic don’t offer them but if I’m still getting faint lines over weekend and into next week I reckon it will be a chemical. The clinic have booked me for scan in two weeks but I reckon it will be clear well before then even on HPT. It’s a bit frustrating!

Gensola · 17/09/2021 17:15

@2mumlife is that your day 3 update? Sounds like things are going really well! That’s such great progress Smile

ngy21 · 17/09/2021 17:37

@Gensola i see the line too! it's not even a squinter - it's there! I'm so sorry everything is so unclear at the moment but there is still hope!!!

@Lotusflower1990000 thank you for your good luck :)

@2mumsandason glad it all went well! I felt fine after my EC, but just now feeling the soreness like you! i think my paracetamol has worn out so just took some more and hopefully the soreness will go away! Hope you're feeling better now

Thank you @beachbum85 and thanks @Novavee, glad your EC went well! Good to hear your IVF is going ahead as normal after the scare!

My EC went quite smoothly as well, the worse part was the cannula i think... so uncomfortable and i was scared of knocking it when doing stuff! The staff were excellent there. I woke up and then had some hot choccie and custard creams! Then discharged shortly after.

Happy with results so far, got 15 eggs! Will get the call tomorrow for fertilisation rate.

Hope everyone is well!

Gensola · 17/09/2021 17:44

@ngy21 wow 15 is amazing! Well done you!! No wonder you feel sore, that’s over a year’s worth of eggs in one go. I found a hot water bottle really helped me, and eating little and often, keeping my fluids up.
The line on the FRER is definitely there too but it is so faint I feel maybe @2mumlife is correct and I’ve caught the end of a chemical. That would be a positive in a way for me as I’d know my body is at least capable of getting pregnant. Ive never even had a snifter of a line before!

beachbum85 · 17/09/2021 18:13

Well done @ngy21 and @Novavee for your ECs, great numbers :)
I love the sedation too, but not the cannula! I hope the soreness subsides soon - take it easy and best of luck for tomorrow's call xx

@2mumlife ugh the wait must have been hard but that is an amazing update!! Well worth the wait :) I'm sure you'll have good news on Monday but that extra day to wait must seem so extra! Sending you hugs and patience

@Gensola I'd feel the same - never seen a line before and it's one step forward. I really hope things become clear soon and it's not a chemical though!

2mumlife · 17/09/2021 20:19

@Gensola I was getting a faint FRER when my blood HCG was 5. I'm hoping your line gets darker though, like you say you really need to compare. I'm never testing early again after chemical Sad. There is another lady who had a chemical same month as.me, and she's got a proper BFP now, so a chemical is a step forward for sure (my chemical was my first BFP). Yup that was day 3 update

@beachbum85 urgh yes extra day to wait feels tough even though I know if won't change outcome knowing any sooner!

Gensola · 18/09/2021 06:45

Hi all, my FRER with FMU was stark white today so I’m out. Thank you all SO much from the bottom of my heart for your words, your kindness and support. It has been a lifeline. I wish you all the very best 💜💜💜
Hoping to have my little frostie transferred before Christmas with a new protocol of steroids and blood thinners but until the start of next cycle will take a break from all things ttC. Xx

foodiefil · 18/09/2021 09:15

I’m really sorry @Gensola
The hope and uncertainty is the worst part. I’d say that was a chemical though. Look after yourself xxx

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beachbum85 · 18/09/2021 10:22

I'm so, so sorry @Gensola :( that rollercoaster of the past few days on top of everything else must have been super hard... A break sounds like a good idea and I hope your next transfer will be the one xxx

beachbum85 · 18/09/2021 10:24

@Novavee @ngy21 @2mumsandason thinking of you and hoping you got good news this morning xx

beachbum85 · 18/09/2021 10:25

@Lotusflower1990000 do you get an update today too?

ngy21 · 18/09/2021 10:30

@Gensola so sorry! But like you say at least you know that an embryo can implant. Understand your body a bit more!

@beachbum85 last night felt rough! Just been taking pain meds. Feel a lot better today m. Got the call this morning and the results were

15 collected
13 mature
10 fertilised

Happy with results at the moment, won't get another update until transfer day which is Wednesday, as they don't like to disturb them! Just fingers crossed I can get 3-4 good quality embryos!!

Not long till your test day now!!!

2mumsandason · 18/09/2021 10:58

@Gensola I'm so sorry. I hope you are ok. Give yourself a lot of self love until you are ready to go again!

@beachbum85 @ngy21 I've had my call too...

7 collected
7 fertilised

We are really pleased 😀 Fingers crossed for the next few days. We are the same as you @ngy21, they don't like to disturb them until day of transfer so we have no more updates until then!

Have you had an update yet @Novavee?

Novavee · 18/09/2021 11:26

@Gensola I am so sorry, lovely. This is such a rough process. Take care of yourself.

@beachbum85 @ngy21 @2mumsandason

I also had my update this morning. Of the 9 mature eggs collected, 8 fertilized normally. They will call again on Monday for a day 3 update and Wednesday to say how many where frozen.

Follow up appointment to discuss FET booked for 27/09. I am hoping we will be able to do an unmedicated FET in my November cycle, but they want my ovaries to return to normal size first.

@ngy21 @2mumsandason how are you feeling? I am so bloated and still uncomfortable. Have been taking it easy and drinking water like my life depends on it.