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Oct/nov ivf buddies

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ivfhope3 · 02/10/2020 16:49

Hey I thought we could do this one as it's going More October/ November :)

@jm2020
@Mctm123
@Lolly2020
@Anxiousbuthopeful

@BKB27
@Raggity19

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hopeful182 · 11/10/2020 16:01

Thanks everyone. You are all right, I shouldn't be righting them off just yet. I was just so emotional yesterday, I couldn't stop panicking.

It only needs one right. Grin

@jm2020 how long do you have left into the tww?

jm2020 · 11/10/2020 16:04

@hopeful182 - I had 10 eggs collected - 5 immature and 2 abnormal. 3 fertilized but only 1 top grade and the other 2 didn't make it to freeze. I was so upset with only 1 out of 10 making it but like you said it only takes 1 and I'm hoping and praying this little bean sticks with us. My test day is next Sunday.

xx

hopeful182 · 11/10/2020 20:38

@jm2020 I have everything crossed for you for the test on Sunday.
Thats good to know, hopefully I will end up with at least 1. Can i ask, and you hmget tell me to keep my neb out, the 2 which didn't make it to freeze, did you do a fresh transfer? X

Freezerbump · 11/10/2020 21:24

@jm2020 everything crossed for you!
@hopeful182 wishing you good news this week :) x

Raggity19 · 12/10/2020 07:14

Good luck for today @raxel. I’m in for a scan this morning to

@hopeful182 hope your call brings good news. Xx

Raggity19 · 12/10/2020 07:15

Too not to 🙄 sorry posted before I saw the last page! @jm2020 not long to go now. Hope you’re doing ok xx

jm2020 · 12/10/2020 08:25

@hopeful182 We did a day 3 fresh transfer :) x

@Raggity19 I'm doing good thanks - good luck with your scan :)

Raggity19 · 12/10/2020 08:38

I’ve just been in. I had 10 on my left and 5 on my right all ranging between 7-10mm. I can’t help but feel really disappointed and I don’t know why?! He said he wants to get around 8/9 eggs which he said from the beginning I guess. He said he wants good quality eggs rather than stimming to get more, does this make sense? I wish I didn’t worry about EVERYTHING! They put me on half the dose I was on last time too so maybe I should just be relieved. Oh I don’t know. This whole process is so hard 😭

ivftake1 · 12/10/2020 08:48

First meriofert and fostimon last night. Husband is a gem and does it for me.

Got another three days of this one injection a day and then I move to two injections a day with something else in the morning.

I'm high ovarian reserve so I'm more at risk of OHSS so I'll be monitored every other days, maybe everyday towards next week.

jm2020 · 12/10/2020 09:12

Hi @Raggity19 those are still good numbers! I know it is hard to get disheartened - They told me we should get aroung 15+ eggs and only ended up with 10 i was gutted! Are you with create? I know they like to focus on quality rather than quantity.

@ivftake1 Yay for your first injection! Aww bless him atleast he might feel abit more involved. When I did my injections my husband used to clean my belly with the wipe and get the needle ready haha but he wouldn't inject me lol!

So ladies - I don't know whether to panic or not - Just been to the toilet and had a bit of pink on the tissues when I wiped. I'm 7dp3dt. xx

Raggity19 · 12/10/2020 10:34

Thanks @jm2020 I’ve just been for acupuncture and she’s sorted me out. 8 eggs would be amazing, I need to be grateful!! This could be a good sign, implantation bleeding?? Xx

ivftake1 · 12/10/2020 11:15

@jm2020

Hi *@Raggity19* those are still good numbers! I know it is hard to get disheartened - They told me we should get aroung 15+ eggs and only ended up with 10 i was gutted! Are you with create? I know they like to focus on quality rather than quantity.

@ivftake1 Yay for your first injection! Aww bless him atleast he might feel abit more involved. When I did my injections my husband used to clean my belly with the wipe and get the needle ready haha but he wouldn't inject me lol!

So ladies - I don't know whether to panic or not - Just been to the toilet and had a bit of pink on the tissues when I wiped. I'm 7dp3dt. xx

Don't panic. Could be implantation bleeding
ivfhope3 · 12/10/2020 13:40

Guess what everyone.... I've started my period.. god knows what happens next hopefully I won't have to go in Friday now an can crack on :) xx

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MrsCassiopeia · 12/10/2020 13:44

Hello all!

A little late to the party (and my first time posting!).

I'm starting on a short protocol tomorrow on our first ever IVF cycle. We had our initial appointment back in July so just eager to get started now and see how it all goes! My AFC has only been 9/10 so not expecting oodles of eggs but hoping that we'll get some good quality ones. First scan is booked for Friday to see how it's all going.

Freezerbump · 12/10/2020 14:42

@ivfhope3 hurrah! You're catching me up :)
@MrsCassiopeia welcome!
How's everyone else doing?
I'm still feeling a bit rough and headachy.. think I need to up my water maybe? How's everyone else's buserilyn journey?!

dragonfly1978 · 12/10/2020 15:16

@ivfhope3 fantastic news!!! Fingers crossed 🤞 you can start ASAP and not wait now!
My drug delivered arrived today - all getting real now, I start on Thursday

jm2020 · 12/10/2020 16:27

Yasssssss @ivfhope3 finally!!!!

@ivftake1 Thank you :)

Raggity19 · 12/10/2020 18:29

Yay @ivfhope3

Welcome @MrsCassiopeia xx

hopeful182 · 12/10/2020 18:41

@ivfhope3 thats great news!!

@jm2020 As people have already said it could be implantation bleed.

Well we ended up with 1 blastocyst today which is going to be frozen. We had 3 which were almost there (2 apparently slightly better than the 3rd) so we are letting the better 2 grow for another 24 hours to hopefully get to the blastocyst stage. The 3rd we ended up taking a gamble and had that transferred today. I am accepting that it is unlikely to stick (due to getting the alternative trigger shot it doesn't prep the womb lining as the HCG trigger shot does) I don't want to regret it tomorrow, if the other 2 don't get to where they need to be, and we could have given a fresh transfer a go.
Worse case scenario is we have the 1 blastocyst there to do a FET when my body is a bit more normal. Haha.

I hope everyone is doing well and sending love to each and everyone of you with whatever stage or circumstances you are going through.

Mctm123 · 13/10/2020 07:39

Hi ladies hope everyone is well sorry I’ve not caught up I’ve spent the last couple of days a worried mess mainly on google regarding these average embryos but we do have 1 good one which hopefully will be transferred at 11 today! Haven’t had any update as yet but hoping for good news. I think it’s harder this time as I know 100% I can’t do this again and I’ve come to accept that but it’s bittersweet as well. Anyway let’s see what today brings xx

@hopeful182 pleased to read your update and good luck for testing - you just never know! An then you have the good quality one banked as well so that’s great. Hopefully the other 2 catch up today as well! Again, what a rollercoaster! Xx

@jm2020 how are you? As others have said, it may have been implantation bleeding! Fingers crossed. Have you had any since? Xx

@ivfhope3 so pleased you got your period!!! Hopefully you can get going asap. Good luck xx

@Raggity19 I was the same on the stims. Majority of the time I was ok but I did have some out the blue up an down moments that even I was surprised by hahaha xx

@ivftake1 hope the injections are going well xx

@raxel @West2401 @Freezerbump @Emmalouise11 how are you guys getting on? Welcome @MrsCassiopeia xx

ivfhope3 · 13/10/2020 07:46

@all it was a false alarm.. back to how I was before xx

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ivfhope3 · 13/10/2020 07:56

@Mctm123 good luck today my lovely.. thinking of you and sending lots of hugs :) xxxxx

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raxel · 13/10/2020 09:55

@Raggity19 Sounds like things are progressing nicely, those are good numbers - if you get 8 lovely, mature eggs that would be brilliant. Are you going for another scan in the next day or so?

@hopeful182 I was in the same position as you, waiting another 24 hours to see if a couple of stragglers caught up, which they did. Hope yours do too, but either way best of luck with the one you had transferred already and hurray for the one you have tucked away in the world's most expensive freezer!

@Mctm123 good luck! Will be thinking of you at 11 and hoping everything goes smoothly.

I had a scan yesterday which was fine - lining thickening up fine as expected - and a blood test yesterday and again today to check for ovulation. When I spoke to them last night they thought it would be either today or tomorrow (hence all the tests!) so transfer on Sunday or Monday...eep!

Raggity19 · 13/10/2020 12:41

@Mctm123 how did it go? Was thinking of you xx

Thanks @raxel , and good news re your scan. I’m just worried I’ve worked myself up so much that there’s no chance of it working 😔 I haven’t been able to calm myself down this week. I’ve just kept thinking about the call when they told us no eggs fertilised and convinced the same will happen again. I know i need to be positive but it’s so hard

@jm2020 how are you?

Mctm123 · 13/10/2020 13:14

Thanks for thinking of me ladies 😊it went great! In fact more than great, after me panicking about the embryos we ended up with 7 blastocysts!! I can’t believe it! So 1 4AA has been transferred, then a 5AB and a 4BC has been frozen and the other 4 are still developing so tomorrow they will decide what to do with them. I’m so happy! In regards to the transfer, they couldn’t get the catheter in at first but swapped it an then it worked but I just feel so relieved I had tears in my eyes. Just shows you the difference in a day 3 to day 5 in terms of embryo progression. To top it off as well, when I came out I got offered 2 jobs through work (I was at risk of redundancy) and now have to decide which one I want. Today is a good day 😊😊😊

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