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IVF Cycle Buddies August/September?

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meadowlark3 · 02/08/2017 19:21

Anyone starting a cycle this month? I know there's a July/August thread, but seems that they've mostly all started on their cycles. I'm due to start DR tomorrow and if all goes well will have EC at the beginning of September.

Have not shared our IVF journey with too many people in IRL so would love to have a bit of company here. This will be our first go at IVF, so quite nervous at the mo!

xx

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Bbyg81 · 25/09/2017 10:35

Congrats scotslass01 so pleased for you we are around the same place so at least I can share with you going through same steps again feeling abit anxious but at same time excited how are you feeling g so far , what are you doing to prepare hopefully not googling like me lol xx

Scotslass01 · 25/09/2017 12:02

Yay it'll be good to have a wee companion through the next stage.
I'm the same. Excited and anxious all at once. I have been trying not to google that much but is so difficult not to.
Xx

meadowlark3 · 25/09/2017 12:22

Well I'm out, got my period this morning. Shattered but holding it together until I'm done with work.

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Scotslass01 · 25/09/2017 12:28

Awww Meadow I am so sorry. What a way to find out. I'm gutted for you. Can you not leave work early?
Big hugs xx

BeHereNow31 · 25/09/2017 12:38

Oh meadows 😔 Sorry. And you're working today too! That's so hard. I've taken some days off to cry and get over my period. Starting to feel more normal today.

Take your time to feel sad. Then you can try again. Xx

Ging78 · 25/09/2017 12:41

Meadowlark I've read somewhere that even if you bleed you should still test as directed and that it may still be OK. Did you speak to your clinic?xxx

Fox23 · 25/09/2017 18:52

Meadow! I'm so so sorry! I feel your pain, as we so on the same schedule! Please test anyway, you never know.... I'm so gutted 😔 I'm lost for words...
lots of love

Bbyg81 · 25/09/2017 19:30

Sorry to hear that meadow take care thinking of you x

Serend1pity · 25/09/2017 19:42

Oh meadows - that is absolutely brutal. So gutted for you :( Have you spoken to the clinic? I thought the progesterone was supposed to stop your period. Will keep my fingers crossed that it isnt what you think it is. Big hugs xxx

Emma1199 · 25/09/2017 21:20

Scots - great news re your follicles.

Meadow - very very sorry to hear - did you manage to speak to your clinic? I agree you should still test too - I've heard that sometimes some bleeding can still happen? xxx

Serend1pity · 25/09/2017 21:31

Scots and BByg - great news on your scans. So excited for you both!

meadowlark3 · 26/09/2017 09:07

Bby and Scots, thrilled for you! Thursday/Friday will be here so soon! Sending lots of good thoughts to you both.

Thanks everyone for your kind words. I haven't spoken to the clinic yet, they were quite clear in their instructions to continue progesterone until official test day. I'm quite sure I will have a negative test as had a massive period yesterday, cramps, heavy bleeding, etc. but will keep going with the progesterone until tomorrow.

Hope everyone else is getting on alright. Fox, you test tomorrow, how are you feeling?

XX

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Scotslass01 · 26/09/2017 09:35

I'm totally deflated. Was back for another scan today and they measured fewer follicles and measured a couple smaller. What's going on! Is that possible???

Awww Meadow I am totally gutted for you. That doesn't sound great if you are bleeding heavily. Big hugs xxx

meadowlark3 · 26/09/2017 12:09

Scots thanks, I'm in a state.

Sorry about your scan but I've no idea, did the sonographer say anything? I recall one of the ladies earlier saying her sonographer poked too hard and it made the follicles collapse a bit. Did they book you for trigger and EC? Xx

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Scotslass01 · 26/09/2017 12:32

Meadow- you are totally entitled to be in a state. The last couple of months has been hard going, then to be utterly disappointed with the not working. I just don't know what to say. It's awful. My heart really goes out to you 😘

Auch I asked her why the difference and she didn't really answer.
I'm waiting to hear today if I have to trigger tonight or if I have to go back tomorrow for another scan.

Xx

Bbyg81 · 26/09/2017 13:42

Afternoon everyone so I did my trigger last night and booked for EC at 8.30 tomorrow morning now I'm feeling shaky about it all unsure what to expect? But fingers crossed 🤞🏽

Scotslass01 did you speak to clinic regarding your EC

Meadow thinking of you hunni x

Thanks to everyone for your support xx

Scotslass01 · 26/09/2017 16:13

Bbyg - ooooh exciting. How you feeling about tomorrow?

I've just spoke to them, they said I have nothing to worry about. I'm trigger tomorrow for EC on Friday.

X

Fox23 · 26/09/2017 17:32

Afternoon ladies,
BbyG- woohooo your big day is nearly here!!!! Best of luck tomorrow! Give us an update when you have a moment!

Scots- fingers crossed for you! Friday is just around the corner! So exciting! When I had my final scan before collection they said I had 9 follicles and only one big, others 16-18 and then they collected 16 eggs! Sometimes I'm not sure if they know what they are looking for! Where did 16 come from? 🤔

Emma- glad to hear from you again! How are you feeling darling?

So, me... my test is tomorrow, but I thought... if I do test in the morning regardless of the outcome I'll be going to work she'll shocked. So, I caved in and bough pregancy test. Just did it, after drinking 4l of water. My dh even asked if I should considering the level of hormone may be very diluted. I did it anyway. It was negative. My DH gave me the biggest hug, I had a good cry... and then 5min later I looked at the test and there was very VERY faint line!!!! Now I wish I didn't do the test, as it's so faint that I'm still not sure. Any ideas? Today is my 10dp5dt.
I'm so confused 😕

Scotslass01 · 26/09/2017 19:31

Omg Fox!!!!! Wow. I'm liking the sound of that. I am keeping everything crossed for you. I think you'll need to sit tight until tomorrow. Eeeeeek this is so exciting.

Thank you for the reassurance it's much appreciated and just what I need. I just want Friday to be here now.

Bbyg - all the best for tomorrow. I'll be thinking of you. Let me know how you get on.

Fox23 · 26/09/2017 19:56

Bbyg and Scots- good luck both of you! After all that wait and injections and wait and scans and wait..... this is the most defining moment. And for that reason, I really enjoyed it. It felt that Finally something is happening. I'm so excited for you both

meadowlark3 · 26/09/2017 20:20

Thanks all for your kind thoughts.

Scots and Bby, so thrilled for you. Bby good luck for EC tomorrow. Scots, good luck with trigger, you're almost there!

Fox, I think that you're not supposed to read the test if it's been exposed longer than the instruction packet say (10 minutes or so?), but a second line is a second line! I think you should defo wait for tomorrow and do another first thing, hopefully will be clearer and stronger then! Will be sending you looads of good thoughts!

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Serend1pity · 26/09/2017 20:32

Hi All,

Seems like it’s been a busy day today.

Scots - must have been a shock for you but I’m pleased you got the reassurance you need. Good luck for your trigger and EC!

Bbyg - so excited for you! It’s such an important day and another obstacle you’ve overcome in your journey. Get that hot water bottle on standby just in case and enjoy the snoozing after :)

Emma - hope all is well with you x

Meadow - you’ve been in my thoughts today. Not surprised you’re in a state. Big hugs xxx

Fox - fingers and toes well and truly crossed for you. Do let us know when you re-test in the morning xxx

Behere and Ging - thoughts are with you both. Hope you are both ok xxx

Me - I’m up and down. No symptoms. Had a really busy couple of days which makes it much easier as Ive been distracted. I’m rubbish when I have too much time to think. My other half and I have been talking about next steps if it doesn’t work. We are debating using donor eggs if this round doesn’t work. We were going to do that before but changed our minds last minute and gave it a go with mine. Fingers crossed for this round🤞🏼

Fox23 · 26/09/2017 20:33

Thank you Meadow, that's exactly what I will do. I ordered some spare from amazon (digital) so I don't have to try to translate faint lines) I still can't get over your AF. I'm so shocked☹️ Will you relax for few months before going back for FET?

Ging78 · 26/09/2017 21:01

Hi ladies

Scots lass I hope your birthday went well. Good luck for ec Friday.

Bbyg good luck with ec tomorrow.

Fox that sounds amazing. Fingers crossed for tomorrow. Sounds good though.

Meadowlark I'm so sorry. Am gutted for you. Have you decided when you're going to try your frozen ones or are you still getting your head around this?

Serend the 2ww is awful. Hope it's going OK.

Emma hope you're good.

It's been tough. I feel broken inside. Trying to look forward to the frozen cycle in 2 months. We're seeing our consultant next wed. I've researched a new acupuncturist as I didn't like the one I used the recently. Onwards and upwards I reckon. This time we'll tell no one. We upset too many people this time.

Xx

Fox23 · 27/09/2017 06:19

Morning ladies, really couldn't sleep due to the test this morning and I ended up doing two tests (just to be sure)... It's Positive!!!!!
Omg BFP I can't believe it, still shell shocked
Bbgy - you probably didn't have great sleep either. How are you feeling? You ready?