Wispin so so pleased for you - so excited for more good news from the love lab
I was told that either the front or the back worked equally well, one nurse said ‘you could swap em around, why not mix it up!’ - I was told to use em up the bum the night before and morning of transfer, to make it easier for the catheter. Up the bum, no harm done! 
Hyland I had the full immunes tests done with a lab in Athens, for £300, instead of the £1500 the usual ones that go to a lab in Chicago cost. The £500 NK cells test doesn’t really give a lot of useful information - but tbh my consultant prescribes empirically (i.e. he doesn’t use the tests, he prescribes the drugs based on a history of failed implantation / miscarriage / autoimmune history), so the tests were really only for me to feel I’d left no stone unturned
How was the scratch hon?
Welcome smurfy and good luck, just don’t be afraid to ask your clinic lots of questions, I joke that my consultant probably groans when he sees my ‘notebook of doom’ come out, chock full of endless questions with which to interrogate him!
AFM and the never-ending miscarriage, everything went OK on Weds
The good news is that there were indeed some teeny fragments of retained tissue, so minute that makes sense they didn’t show up on ultrasound. Consultant said he might have got them first time round if he’d given the bowl a damn good scraping clean - but as I’ve said before, that would have left my lining in tatters, which would have been a disaster.
He said he took quite a while because he wanted to be really super gentle, even with the camera, so it was definitely worth doing - now everything’s had a clean and polish hopefully will get on track.
I’m going in for bloods on Weds, with the aim of starting stims as soon as my hormones are back to normal. Essentially we’re trying to find the right day to pick as ‘day 1’ - as there’ll be no period, as I’ve had two D&Cs so there’s no lining left! By starting stims as soon as hCG hit zero, the hope is that my FSH will be nice and low, having been suppressed during pregnancy
Still getting BFP on clearblue fertility monitor, but cheapie is BFN, so can’t be long to go till I’m officially un-pregnant-ed