Hi ladies, hope you're all well and have nice plans for the weekend xx
KerryLou, I used to start testing a few days after finishing taking clomid, so around day 8 (if you take your pills day 2-6) and tested everyday until I got my positive opk result. Then at it like bunnies! Once we got the positive opk we dtd everyday for 4 days. Before the positive opk we tried to dtd every other day from around day 8.
LM the spray was by Balance Activ and just called Conceive Fertility Spray. It comes in gel as well I think depending on what you prefer. We used the spray every time we dtd. You can get it in Boots or look online. As I say, not sure if it helped but worth a try 
I'm well thanks Anroga, feel like I'm getting fatter already but just been a proper piggy since finding out, I need to kerb my appetite as the baby is only the size of a sesame seed atm
I think taking the pressure off makes a huge difference, have you tried acupuncture or reiki? I have heard positive things about both. Oh and remember Agnus Castus, I'm sure it helped me conceive my first little boy, I only went to clomid when my periods completely disappeared. Keeping my hopes up it will work for you soon, but if it does get to IVF, at least you will feel refreshed after a break of actively ttc.
Hi Mrshope, you're very welcome to join in, I've found it helpful and friendly here - sometimes you need to talk to people going through the same thing or who have been through the same thing. Ttc when it's not happening naturally is a tough emotional experience. Hoping clomid works for you xx