I wouldn’t ever want to prolong the life of my son if he was dead and wouldn’t recover.
But I did do a bit of Googling on this yesterday and it seems with my limited knowledge that ‘death’ is a disputed term. It used to be if someone stopped breathing we call them dead. Then it was the heart. Now it’s the brain of which we don’t fully understand.
I hate to be so vulgar as to use these words, but from what I gathered the only thing everyone could agree on was that when decay of brain set in then that’s that. Some did argue that brain death in the sense of no signals might not necessarily be beyond repair in the same way our lungs and heart previously were deemed dead when no signalling/functioning. Hence how we now have electric pads to kick start them again.
It was quite a horrific internet hole with lots of sadness but there were some incredible cases of people deemed brain dead waking from comas when advances in medicine were made. Some with excellent recovery’s.
Obviously I am not a doctor and so have no idea and any of this really but perhaps that’s what’s going through this mums poor mind. That he may be one of those miracle cases and that he’s not being given the chance.
It’s changed my view somewhat. I appreciate realistically we can’t keep everyone who ‘dies’ on life support for ever in the chance that a couple might wake in 20 years as medicine advances. Of course that’s no consolation to this family. They will want the whole worlds resources thrown at their son and who wouldn’t if you genuinely thought he could be that miracle.
Very sad. Heartbreaking case.