" I do not in any way condone the actions of the dr's, nurses, mw's or anyone else that saw that poor woman and refused the abortion."
Well then you don't understand the invidious position they were in.
The Irish constitution gives rights to the foetus that are "equal to" those of its host. Despite a Supreme Court decision and ECHR decision, no legislation has been forthcoming to give a woman any rights to abortion even where her life is in danger.
Presumably the medical staff who attended her didn't think she would die and were following their legal advice that they would face criminal prosecution if they performed an abortion while the foetus was still alive.
It is not the medical staff who have blood on their hands here, it's the pro-lifers who have lobbied and demonstrated and told barefaced lies and who have made it politically impossible for women in Ireland to have their basic human right to life protected.