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And now they're introducing a tax break for married couples!

260 replies

LadyBiscuit · 05/10/2010 14:40

So not only do higher earning lone parents not get CB when the couple next door will still be eligible, they will also get a tax reward for being married.

BBC story

They really don't like single parents do they? Angry

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fothergill · 05/10/2010 22:15

No one is going to write to their MP are they.
The social engineering thing about making us marry each other is just a further..weird bad thing that the conservatives did.
Please write to the MP

marantha · 05/10/2010 22:15

isel My reply was in response to nancydrewrocked who suggested that cohabiting couples were treated same as married.
noddyholder. All I can say is that I've cohabited in non-serious relationships and would NOT have wanted to combine my finances in ANY way with my ex-boyfriends.
and what is more I would have resented state interference into my relationships- If I wanted that, I'd marry.

marantha · 05/10/2010 22:16

I agree with double standards bit. Yes, the govt certainly treats cohabitees when it suits them (govt) best!

WilfShelf · 05/10/2010 22:17

And while you're all on this issue, do those of you that voted Tory really expect others to feel somehow sorry for you, or pat you on the back when you say I'm never voting for them again?

Really?

Put your brain in gear next time.

noddyholder · 05/10/2010 22:22

It is not about combining finances but if you live together and have a child when you fill out tax credit forms they take household income into account and pay accordingly.I don't understand why when I was ill dp had to support me financially rather than me claim benefits as the single person I am.(in their eyes)He was good enough to support me then but not to recieve this tax break for his trouble

mrsdennisleary · 05/10/2010 22:27

Deeply insulting proposal. Did the Lib Dems know about this? I can't believe they would support this. They have to vote against it.

PS Are all the Tory MNetters in B'ham? They are terribly quiet.

Stillcrying sorry that this makes you feel even worse.

legostuckinmyhoover · 05/10/2010 22:29

yep, and its the same when you and your co-habiting partner split. co-habitees do not have the same recourses as marrieds/divorcees. but, as said earlier it is not illeagal to have children out of wedlock, live as married etc but co-habitees are not treated the same when it ends.

anyway...i guess this is what Cammeron meant when he kept saying prior to the election...."Those who make the RIGHT choices" will be rewarded!

drivingmisscrazy · 05/10/2010 22:31

just to put another oar in - do you think that the proposal includes or excludes Civil Partners? If the latter, then it's a real retrograde step and shows how thin the veneer of tolerance really is. If the former, then it's illogical, surely, to compensate a 2 income couple without children, while penalising a 1 income family (married, unmarried, single parent) with children. And of course there are gay couples with children (I'm one of them)...I just didn't see CPs mentioned in any of the press...

WhyAyeButterPie · 05/10/2010 22:32

Bollocks. Me and DH weren't going to get married if this went through, but it looked like they had dropped it so we did.

We were all set to do the whole white dress/rings thing and just never actually sign the form. Refer to each other as husband and wife and everything, just not give the twats in charge the satisfaction of thinking we are somehow better now.

mrsdennisleary · 05/10/2010 22:32

I have had to post again as I have just seen all the pictures in tomorrow's papers of Sam Cam and the baby with David Cameron family basher. How stupid do they think we are? Perhaps they think mums cant read and will only concentrate on the pictures.

You can just picture the discussion. Help the MNetters are going crazy. Quick let's get Sam on the train and stage photos of DC holding the baby so they remember I am family friendly. Blatant manipulation.

sweetkitty · 05/10/2010 22:33

Well I am rushing out to marry DP to get this wonderful £150 a year tax break as it will more than make up for the £3146 we will lose.

As we have 4 children working is not an option for me with regards childcare right now, will be in the future though. As we decided to have 4 children and I would stat at home for their toddler years we are being penalised. That and my DP working his bum off to get 2 degrees and a good job.

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edam · 05/10/2010 22:36

That's not what David Willetts promised when he was interviewed by MNers before the election. He promised (yeah, right) that the Tories would support families and not treat lone parents any less favourably. Big fat lie.

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